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Kola
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Username: Kola
Post Number: 1879
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, July 02, 2005 - 12:14 am: | 
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WHAT'S YOUR OPINION?
I really want a daughter---but Thomas and I
are not getting back together.
Yet...I want all my children to have the
same father.
When my boys see little black girls on
t.v.--they pressure me to get them a
little sister.
Should I ask Thomas to impregnate me
with a baby girl even though we've gone
our separate ways?
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Abm
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Username: Abm
Post Number: 3756
Registered: 04-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, July 02, 2005 - 01:02 am: |
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Are you prepared to handle the added stress of another child while trying to kick your writing career in high gear...and Thomas is GONE?
And what about your safety/protection issues? Having a new baby with Thomas NOT being around might prove worrisome.
And, unless you've got you own private genome thing happening, if if Thomas consents, there's a strong chances you'd get preggers with a another boy.
What do you do THEN?
You better 'pray' on this one, kid. And pray HARD! |
Kola
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Username: Kola
Post Number: 1883
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, July 02, 2005 - 01:17 am: |
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Yeah, you're right.
I shouldn't have another baby.
I just get these "gushes" of ideas. Maybe the real truth is that I just want an excuse to let Thomas have his way sexually--without a commitment.
Which I know I don't want in the long run.
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Kola
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Username: Kola
Post Number: 1884
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, July 02, 2005 - 01:18 am: |
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And you're right. I've only been pregnant with BOYS so far. 4 in all.
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Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 3762
Registered: 04-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, July 02, 2005 - 02:30 am: |
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Kola,
Perhaps there's something about your collective body chemistry that engender male children. I've recall loosely reading that differing ph levels within the uterus are more conducive for either X or Y sperm.
Maybe you've have the latter in utero vintage.
Funny. It always scares me whenever someone brings a baby around. The missus starts cooing and ahhing something awful. All of a sudden, her seductive powers quadruple I guess to facilitate conception. |
Yvettep
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Yvettep
Post Number: 561
Registered: 01-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, July 02, 2005 - 08:09 am: |
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Adopt. (Course, it wouldn't solve the "same father" issue.)
Or, IVF w/pre-genetic implantation diagnosis for sex selection (XX) using Thomas' sperm.
Or, wait til your boys are old enough to give you daughters-in-law and granddaughters!
Meantime, become a scout leader for a Girl Scout troop or something.
But above all else, I agree--Think LONG and HARD before making any quick moves! (If I lived in Cali you could babysit my little ones...might change your mind, tho, about wanting daughters! LOL) |
Kola
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Username: Kola
Post Number: 1892
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, July 02, 2005 - 12:27 pm: |
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LMAO at Yvette!!!!
Thanks for really great advice.
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