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kola
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Username: kola
Post Number: 690
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, May 01, 2005 - 10:46 pm: | 
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Two important things.
FIRST...I was very upset today when I saw that ABM's name is suddenly coming out as "abm" in the KOOL ROOM board.
I've written a letter to Troy, asking him to fix it, and I want to say, officially, that ABM is the "KING" of this board and I wanted his name in large letters on purpose. TROY...please change it back!!!
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And, SECOND...to ABM
I want you to please go to DESTINED and sit her down and convince her that the three of us should get together....at least ONCE....as mutual friends, to share a meal, see each other face to face and to put all the B.S. behind us.....because I really adore you, ABM, and I want you to be in my life as my BROTHER.....and I really need an opportunity to make DESTINED realize that I can be trusted and that I would never EVER do anything to hurt her or to disrespect your committment or to compromise it.
I have already ADMITTED that I love you, ABM...which is proof that I can be trusted to at least tell the truth. And on top of that, we would agree never to meet unless it's with DESTINED in tow. And she might be pleasantly surprised to find out-----that I can love her, too, just as intensely, although not sexually.
OK.
I looked all that over, and I realize that it's asking a lot...but after all these years, ABM, it's impossible for me not to feel close to you....and it's unfair that I don't know your name and have never seen you. It's easier for you, because you have all kinds of PHYSICAL imagery of me.....but I have nothing.
I want to meet your whole family if possible.
They will love me...once I make them understand that we are brother and sister.
Our chemistry is positively painful.....and later down the road, I may really need you and DESTINY.
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abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: abm
Post Number: 2491
Registered: 04-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, May 02, 2005 - 11:26 pm: |
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Kola,
WOW!
“King” of the Board, huh?
Thanks!
I feel honored (and embarrassed).
But don’t haggle with Troy over the name thing. (“What the *#$% is Troy doing?”). I’m sure you and I will grow accustomed to it (“Dude must be outtah his #$%^, *&^%$ mind!”)
Yeah. It’s no big deal (“*&^%$!!!”).
I appreciate your wanting to meet/greet.
But I think we’re still probably YEARS away from my wife sanctioning such.
Destined ain’t NOBODY’s fool! She’s got powers of intuition that border on being precognitive.
And the missah trusts you about as far as she could throw Aretha Franklin.
(Hint: Although you (may) mean well, your admitting to “love” me does NOT help things.)
Maybe if/when you’re firmly installed in a another committed, satisfying relationship, the four of us can meet, kiss, hug and rub all over each other ( ‘platonically’, of course.).
‘Til then, though, we should probably keep our distance.
I do believe, though, if we ever get passed the issue of your wanting to give me ‘some’ (assuming such is possible), you and Destined might become good friends.
She, like you, is a splendid artist (I imagine you could write some beautiful songs together.). She’s a dutiful, loving and protective mother. She’s honest to a fault.
And Destined (notwithstanding her being “hazel-eyed”) appears to agree with MUCH of what you say about Black men/women, colorism, etc.
I even recall her once angrily exclaiming “All these dayam Black men who are abandoning sistahs for White women outtah to be taken somewhere and SHOT!”
That sounds like your cup-ah-tea, KB.
PS: Unlike you, though, Destined (like myself) suspects Condi and ‘W’ are doin’ it. (“ABM: ‘Aw, come on now, Babe. You know they've slapped-skins in every office of the White House by now.’ Destined: ‘Yeah. So what! At least, unlike most Black men, Bush gave his Black girlfriend a GREAT job!’ ABM: ‘<cricketchirping>’”) |
kola
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Username: kola
Post Number: 695
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, May 02, 2005 - 11:59 pm: |
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LOL.
Wonderful post ABM.
And you know what----I would LLOOOOOOVE to send DESTINED some tapes/lyrics that I've done over the years.
I agree. I know, intuitively, that I would LOOOOVE Destined. I can feel it and I tried so hard to (a) not lie to her and (b) express my admiration and fondness for her without seeming smaltzy. I really and truly would love for us all to be pals.
Maybe it's me and DESTINED who should talk on the phone and stuff first. ABOUT THE MUSIC!!!!!!
She will come to like me and trust that I have integrity.
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I do believe, though, if we ever get passed the issue of your wanting to give me ‘some’ (assuming such is possible), you and Destined might become good friends.
ABM...what do you mean here when you say "assuming such is possible"?
LOL
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kola
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Username: kola
Post Number: 696
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, May 03, 2005 - 12:06 am: |
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I never said I wanted to "GIVE U SOME".
I said that I "wanted" you. Meaning= if you and her broke up, I think you would be a good husband for me and I believe I could be a really great wife to you. I made that clear that I was only saying "IF" she left you---but I didn't say that I ONLY wanted to "give you some". I see you as more serious quarry than just sexual.
But the thing is.....this happens ALL THE TIME between people.
I have other male friends that are like BROTHERS to me, but when we first met, one of us INITIALLY was "infatuated" and googley-eyed. But then after you realize that circumstances won't allow for it---you adjust to the RICHES and SATISFACTION of being "brothers", "friends". You can love a person very deeply without it being sexual/romantic/etc.
And like I keep reiterating---I'm an extremely sensitive, emotional person. DESTINED may just find that the person I really love and have more to give is HER. Especially since she's a fellow artist.
Plenty of girl friendships have started with another girl having a crush on their husband.
But I agree....it will take YEARS.
And perhaps I will be married to Mike Tyson in another year, huh?
PRAY for me.
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abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: abm
Post Number: 2494
Registered: 04-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, May 03, 2005 - 06:56 am: |
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Kola,
I’m sorry. I may have misspoken on “the issue of your wanting to give me ‘some’”. Perhaps what I should have said instead was “her suspicion of your wanting to give me ‘some’”.
Kola: “I said that I "wanted" you. Meaning= if you and her broke up, I think you would be a good husband for me and I believe I could be a really great wife to you.”
ABM: I know you’ve warned me, Yvette. I must be some kinda masochist or something.
Kola: “And perhaps I will be married to Mike Tyson in another year, huh...”
ABM: If that occurs, my wife should have ZERO reason to be concerned about us. Because I maybe crazy, but I AIN’T suicidal.
Kola: “...PRAY for me.”
ABM: May GOD have mercy on your soul! |
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