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Brownbeauty123 AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Brownbeauty123
Post Number: 2193 Registered: 03-2006
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 06:23 am: |
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How do you feel about her? at times it seems that Barack is more into her than she is into him. |
Disciple724 Veteran Poster Username: Disciple724
Post Number: 235 Registered: 07-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 06:55 am: |
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she just seemed uncomfortable with all of the attention. She seem to be preoccupied with "appearing regal". Keep in mind that this was like being under a microscope for a very long time. Not a comfie spot for a black woman at this stage! To wit: Is that the right dress?, Is she gaining weight?, Isn't her hairstlye horrible? Man, she can't dance a lick! What a pressure cooker for any woman? |
Chrishayden "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Chrishayden
Post Number: 7685 Registered: 03-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 10:45 am: |
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I don't know her. |
Robynmarie Veteran Poster Username: Robynmarie
Post Number: 874 Registered: 04-2006
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 11:36 am: |
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Michelle used to rub me the wrong way, but now I am feelin' her! The way she and Prez Obama were dancing last night was a sight to behold. She gave him a peck on the lips, and he was looking like, "this-could-go-all-the-way." LOL The best line I heard about Mrs. Obama is "finally there will be a pressing comb in the WH." I love her sense of style and am dying to see what art she hangs in the WH. BTW, right wing talk radio (you haven't lived until you've heard them rant about Mrs. Obama. LOL.) says Mrs. Obama is pregnant. All I can say is, AMEN!! |
Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique
Post Number: 13387 Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 11:43 am: |
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Personally, I'd hoped for a something a little more svelte and sophisticated in her choice of an inaugural gown. She looked like she was on her way the the senior prom. She could've worn her hair in an upswept do also because it's limp and doesn't have a lot of body. That said, Michelle Obama is her own woman, free to develop her own style. She doesn't need my approval. |
Chrishayden "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Chrishayden
Post Number: 7694 Registered: 03-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 11:57 am: |
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According to the tabloids, they have a troubled marriage. A soap opera co presidency! How charming! |
Thumper Veteran Poster Username: Thumper
Post Number: 751 Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 12:48 pm: |
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Hello all, I love Michelle!! I thought the gown was a little too long, but other than that it was alright. Since I'm not into fashion design like that I'm not an authority on the subject. I did like her daytime outfit though. As far as first ladies goes, I don't think she's going to fit in any of the molds of her predecessors, which in my opinion is a good thing. |
Moonsigns AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 2073 Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 02:42 pm: |
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I like her - she's intelligent, refined, & stylish (though slightly conservative)! The Bush women, Hilary and Nancy were definitely boring. Michelle has a warmth and vibrancy that I find extremely refreshing! I'm looking forward to her role as First Lady! |
Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 4891 Registered: 02-2005
Rating: Votes: 2 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 03:02 pm: |
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I think Michelle Obama is the most REVOLUTIONARY image in this whole Presidency--even more so than Obama, the African and his people in Kenya. For WHITE America...she's a shock. I think Michelle tries to stay real and grounded. I LOVE her limp "real" hair. And her striking child-like Ashanti-Bangara Wood Mask face is exquisite, natural and very enchanting --her beauty sneaks up on you. Like Cynique, I too, would have preferred to see her in a more Svelte ensemble--but apparently there were some murmurings from the OLD GUARD about her "sexuality" becoming "flagrant" after people began discussing what a "Big ass" she has and how form-fitting dresses showed that off. Notice they're trying to remove her sexual vibe and make her more MATRONLY lately. God forbid that a "deep brown" skin woman should appear... girlish, winsome, desirable and vibrantly sexual. It's threatening--because like it or not--Michelle is the MOST ATTRACTIVE First Lady America has ever had. While I thought Jackie Kennedy regal, VERY PRETTY and winowy (LOVE her voice) --she had a punched in face and was quite "overrated" by the MEDIA as White women always are. Michelle is prettier and way sexier. Check out Artist Daniel Edwards' portrait of Michelle Obama What pisses me off--- ...is how they raved about Princess Diana's looks. Plain-looking but quietly attractive Princess Diana, who to me certainly was humble, striking and loveable ---but was never the GREAT BEAUTY they've always claimed. They PRAISED Princess Diana for being so tall. Remember that? But Michelle's "Height", if you've noticed, also been called "intimidating" by some of the ESTABLISHMENT---a b.s. comment I've dealt with my whole life, but in reality the SHORTEST tug boat women are the mean hyper ones--not us tall black girls. I hate how they praise tall blondes and then castigate a tall Goddessa BonBon for being "intimidating." I had to turn 40 before I realized that my HEIGHT is what makes people notice me coming into a room--no matter how bad I look that day--and that my height is Beautiful; not intimidating and not masculine. I LOVE that Michelle is so tall! MOST IMPORTANTLY...Michelle Obama is a really brilliant; intelligent woman. She has immense common sense and motherwit. Some of us get annoyed (rubbed the wrong way) by seeing a Black woman up there SPEAKING LOUD; advancing her opinions and unapologetically reveling in her own image. I LOVE IT! Even when it was a woman whose views I totally disagreed with --Condoleezza Rice---I LOVED IT. There nothing.... ...absolutely nothing wrong with Michelle Obama. . |
Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 4892 Registered: 02-2005
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 03:05 pm: |
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OH MY GOD, MOONSIGNS!!!!!
MOON---how have you been doing? I missed you! I really mean that. . |
Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 4893 Registered: 02-2005
Rating: Votes: 2 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 03:33 pm: |
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Brownbeauty: at times it seems that Barack is more into her than she is into him. Did it ever occur to you that THAT's how she got him? You young girls really need to get a clue. Honestly, Brownbeauty... The only times I ever had a "substantial" love interest in my life is when... (a) I wasn't looking for one and (b) I made it clear that I could give a fukk. Men love a challenge. And if you make yourself into a woman whos's ABOUT SOMETHING---you'll find that life is just as rewarding when you don't have a man. Right now--I'm happy being a Mom, a Homemaker, a writer, and when I need "recreation" with men, I have my "stable." I've had the big gushing LOVE STORY; I've had the rich abusive bad boy (and HOW!); I've had the playa-playa first love who took my virginity; I've had the one that got away; I've had MEN. Now it's my turn to have MY SPACE and a few Boy Toys on the string. YOU WANT A MAN, Brownbeauty.... Don't ever come off "needy," "smothering," "neglectful of yourself" or worst of all "desperate"--they'll abandon you. (a)Be pleasant--whenever you see him; smile. (b)Gather knowledge so you have a intelligent conversation (c)Learn to cook--compile at least 5 knock-out recipes that nobody knows how to make but you (d) Look the best you can, but don't obsess and don't waste time on people to whom LOOKS are everything--those are the insecure Men and they'll leave you no matter how fabulous you are. (e) Be NATURAL--when you feel like crying DO IT; when you feel like Cussing DO IT; when you feel Vulnerable--show it. Men love Vulnerability and softness. (f) Be FIRM about your convictions. Don't ever compromise your beliefs for a man --he'll lose respect and he'll leave you. Men also love strong women; as long as they're not bitter. (G)Don't EVER give ultimatums. (H)Don't EVER let a man see how you put yourself together---don't let him watch you get your hair done; don't let him watch you put on makeup. It takes away from your mystery and allure. MYSTERY and BOUNDARIES will turn a man on more than seeing you with green Mudd on your face. Be provincial. (I) Keep your Vagina tight--do crunches, tighten your abdominal muscles. If necessary--have it surgically tightened back up when you get older. You'll always want that Proficiency in bed. (J) DON'T EVER GET PREGNANT unless it's what you BOTH want. #1--you'll lose your man if he's not ready to have a baby. #2--you'll be tied down once you have a baby and other men won't value you --stay baby-less as long as possible or until you have the Financial Wealth for it not to matter. (K)Don't EVER accept abuse of any kind ---not Physical abuse and not Psychological abuse. The minute you start accepting abuse, you're in for a hell ride and it's YOUR FAULT. (L) Love wisely. (M) Always remember that the way to a man's heart is GREAT FOOD and really GOOD BLOW-JOBS. Ha ha! I'm joking--but then again I'm not. Happy 25th, Brownbeauty. . |
Moonsigns AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 2075 Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 03:40 pm: |
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Hey Kola - long time! My family & I are well, and I hope you & your sons are enjoying good health and joy! Despite my absence, it's good to breeze through here and agree on one thing: Michelle Obama is amazing! btw, while listening to CNN yesterday, someone mentioned Joe Madison's name. It made me recall a debate I once had with you on this forum. Mr. Madison lost a lot of weight and is looking far healthier these days. Kudos to him - I've always liked his radio program! |
Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 4897 Registered: 02-2005
Rating: Votes: 4 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 03:51 pm: |
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MOON... Joe Madison is so great. I worked with him last year in forming the SSPP: http://thesspp.org He actually went to Juba, Sudan and met my Commander (who has since been assassinated). He looks fantastic!!! But I'm prejudiced. I love Joe. MOON... SO GLAD to hear about you and your family---what a blessing. I have changed a LOT Moon. While I still come from a certain place 22,000 miles from here and still retain BASE/ROOT beliefs ---I have really found myself getting to KNOW other types of people and alternative living and I find myself loving and appreciating all types of differences that once annoyed me. I feel so guilty about being so shitty towards you in the past. Though on some things I was right--my attitude wasn't always called for. In truth--a lot of stuff about you reminded me of me. I LIKED you and I do. I'm just so grateful that you're here and I get to tell you. You're the BOMB, my sis. I HEART You. And I'm sorry. . |
Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique
Post Number: 13397 Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 06:44 pm: |
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Hi Moonie! Where ya been? I know you're a fan of Michelle. She's your type of gal. Me, I'm more impressed with her mother. Wonder why????? |
Moonsigns AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 2077 Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 - 08:39 pm: |
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Hey Cynique! How are you doing? I'm sure you've enjoyed the events of this past week! I've just been busy with the day-to-day About Michelle - she is so my type of gal! I love how intelligent, refined, graceful and sweet she is! I love how she (seems to be) such a wonderful wife and mother! I'm not surprised why you're more impressed with her mother - however, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree |
Mochascafe Veteran Poster Username: Mochascafe
Post Number: 114 Registered: 08-2007
Rating: Votes: 1 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 11:08 am: |
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I personally love Michelle. I think she is a breath of fresh air. As for the dress, I thought it was nice. Would I personally wear it? No but I am not shaped like Michelle. I would have looked like a frumpy bridesmaid Nothing wrong with Barack seeming like he's more into her, my momma taught me that thats the way it should be. Never fawn all over a man, let him do that with you. Appreciate him but dont act like you cant do without him or fuss over him all the time. It will make you look desperate and clingy. According to my Momma, she's doing the right thing. |
Carey AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Carey
Post Number: 1573 Registered: 05-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 11:45 am: |
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I was going to stay clear of this girlee chit chat about dresses and thangs until Chocolate Latte hit us with what women are suppose to do . I think her momma knows best. A clingy women is a turnoff. Now there's a thin line between being clingy and expressing your love. The ego is a funny thang. I like being championed as the leader of the family but I also like the Queen to move around and do what she does. But check this out. If I was just named President and my first lady and I were doing our first dance in front of the world, she would have to hold me like she loved me. Look, I would have whispered in her ear to hold me tight. Shoot, we wouldn't have been doing the slow-grind but we would have stuck to each other like peanut butter and jelly. Hey, if we are going to set the stage and show the world how this is done, we would have done the damn thang. I saw Obama doing the bump and we all know that there's nothing wrong with a little bump and grind ...a little . That smug look she had wouldn't have played well with this black man. I would have probably said, "look her baby, don't have me show my ass up here. Give me some sugar and get close to daddy". But see, that's why he's there and I am ...... Michelle appears to be a black women that doesn't tolerate mess. Hey, she's from Chicago and them sisters don't play. They have their own way of dressing and don't care what others think about it. |
Mochascafe Veteran Poster Username: Mochascafe
Post Number: 116 Registered: 08-2007
Rating: Votes: 4 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 01:49 pm: |
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Carey, do you think she looked smug? I think if she would have acted any other way she would have been Michelle the slut by the morning, by the afternoon the headlines would have read "Michelle Dirty Dances on Barack" And by the evening news..... "Michelle Gives Barack First Lap Dance as President" Donna Brazille, Roland Martin and Whoopi would be all over their shows trying to give an overview of "Dancing and Black Culture" |
Carey AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Carey
Post Number: 1574 Registered: 05-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 02:27 pm: |
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Well Creamy Chocolate *lol*, I hear what you are saying and I am with you. I embelished my desires a wee bit. You asked if I thought see looked smug. Well, it's safe to say that she displayed a variety of expressions and emotions throughout the day. Disciple did a good job of explaining why that happened. I am sure she was fully aware of her surroundings and her position. Did I ever see bits of smugness ...sure. That's not to say that she walked around with her nose in the air. Nope, like I said, she's a black women that displayed all the emotions that comes with that title. What I didn't see was a black women that was trying to act white. When the black marching bands came through, her and Barrack got their dips on. I realize that there are many individuals like those you've mentioned that can't wait to find something negative to talk about. In reference to the dance, I just wish she would have hugged him with a little passion ...that's all. I don't know about you and your's but when me and mine hold each other while we dance, we fit ...you know what I am talking about. When it's all said and done, she is going to be who she is. And **** what another ************er says about it. For real, when you think of your own life, does what that women, the one that can't stand your ass, have any real affect on who you truly are? Sure, I can hear all the "Yeah Buts" BUT ... in the end, it starts within. See, it's all in the eye of the beholder. I could have sworn I saw you at one of those balls, sitting in a dark corner with a rapper. At first I thought it was Denzel until I saw his wife standing close to him. Come on Chocolate Puree', you can tell me, was that you? I won't tell nobody . |
Mochascafe Veteran Poster Username: Mochascafe
Post Number: 117 Registered: 08-2007
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 06:07 pm: |
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LOL Carey!!!!! Yes that WAS me, in fact at the time you saw me it was when TI was whispering in my ear that "You Can Have Whatever You Like" Had to drop him though, my man was coming back from the bathroom. |
A_womon AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: A_womon
Post Number: 2541 Registered: 05-2004
Rating: Votes: 2 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 06:30 pm: |
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Michelle was making goo goo eyes at her man and had a look like new love on her face! She was blushing each time Barack whispered in her ear. Made you wonder if he was whispering, "Yeah, baby wait til I get you home, lookin all good n ____. Yeah, girl, Imma_____that dress ___and then Imma______________and have that_____________make you___and ____and then start back at one, Baby. |
Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique
Post Number: 13399 Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 09:39 pm: |
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I read an article about the Obama marriage in which Barak revealed that Michelle has an inner vulnerablity that appeals to him, making him feel protective. He went on to imply that she tried to mask the fears which often plagued her but he could see flashes of terror in her eyes. So maybe Michelle's confident facade is all an act. Is she smug or is she just withdrawn, a little frightened by the expectations she is trying to meet. Their relationship obviously has yin and yang overtones. |
Gingerbronze Newbie Poster Username: Gingerbronze
Post Number: 2 Registered: 01-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 09:50 pm: |
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LOL @ Mochacafe, Carey, A_woman Your comments were a treat. I'm so happy for the President and First Lady. Chicago represent! All Hyde Parkers stand up! Special shout-outs to Dixie Kitchen, 53rd St. Barber Shop and Rajun Cajun. My fiance used to play basketball with Obama. He didn't think Obama's hoop skills were all that tight, but he was aiight. LOL Plus, Michelle Obama (Robinson - Class of '81) went to my high school - Whitney Young Magnet. Although, I'm Class of '85, I recently found out we shared music instructors and were both members of the Renaissance Girls Chorus. On 1/3/09, at a viewing party and reunion of former Renaissance Chorus members, our music teacher, Mrs. Robertson, played a DVD (which she also handed out a copy to each of us) of all the major concert performances throughout the years. Imagine our surprise and glee when we saw Michelle Robinson in one of the performances with her class on the tape. It's wonderful to see a fellow Dolphin and Capricorn in the White House! Class of '85 is still live! South Side Boogie, baby. *Steppin' in the name of love* |
Gingerbronze Newbie Poster Username: Gingerbronze
Post Number: 3 Registered: 01-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Thursday, January 22, 2009 - 10:04 pm: |
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Kola, that bust of Michelle Obama is regal and divine. It is a breath-taking, beautiful piece of artwork. I just stare at it trying to figure out how Daniel Edwards captured such detail and surreal likeness of her image. |
Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 4906 Registered: 02-2005
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Friday, January 23, 2009 - 10:21 pm: |
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Ginger, Hey girl. Just imagine how people on here would FLIP OUT if they knew what MEGA-selling Bestselling SUPERSTAR Black author you are. I know you hate such "superlatives" but I'm tempted to tell. Please drop me an email when you get time: kolaboof_email@yahoo.com . |
Nom_de_plume Veteran Poster Username: Nom_de_plume
Post Number: 176 Registered: 07-2006
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Saturday, January 24, 2009 - 12:47 pm: |
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Kola, you are dropping GEMS up in here!!!! Gotdayum!!!! My gurl. Welcome back! I am in love with thread! LOL |
Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 4909 Registered: 02-2005
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Sunday, January 25, 2009 - 02:23 pm: |
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Nom_de_plume, Thank you so much for your kindness. I wish you had made it to my Schomburg reading the time you were coming. You would be telling everyone about my singing. . |
Kandi_gyal Newbie Poster Username: Kandi_gyal
Post Number: 6 Registered: 10-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | Posted on Wednesday, January 28, 2009 - 05:24 pm: |
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Michelle is THAT CHICK. She's intelligent, loves her family, classy and shapely. Someone in a previous post said something about people saying her sexuality being flagrant. LOL! I guess that dumb biz-nitch Palin sashaying her pasty flat white azz around in a short leather mini was the perfect example of feminity and grace. She is the first lady and she fits it. To a "T". I wouldn't give a shyt if she wore a potato sack and flip flops to the inauguration....her SHAPE IS SO NICE IT WOULD HAVE DRAPED OVER HER FRAME NICELY...and I say this as a straight woman. |