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Tonya
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THE BRIDGE: Black Women Hate Black Men
By Darryl James, eurweb.com - July 8, 2008
I think that it is sad indeed that R Kelly’s case is being compared to the Mike Tyson rape conviction. In that case, I still maintain that Tyson was also a victim, not just the woman who allowed him to perform oral sex on her while menstruating and then emerged from a locked bathroom with a phone to continue engaging with her “attacker.”
Muddied and confusing.
Do I think R Kelly is guilty?
The answer is: “Does it matter?”
I ask if it matters because out of all the positions that people hold, few want to take the position I hold, which is that if Kelly is to be held accountable, then other people, including the women who enabled him must be held accountable as well.
How about Sparkle, the young girl’s aunt, who allegedly served her up in order to get Kelly’s support for her own music career?
How about the girl’s parents who failed miserably as parents and had no idea what a freak their little girl had become? Why was a thirteen-year-old girl alone with a grown man? Why was she having sex like a Porn Star? Is all of that Kelly’s fault?
How about a society that allows and even encourages young girls to dress and act like adult hookers and then flashes righteous indignation when grown men look and interact with those young girls inappropriately?
There are plenty of young girls with super tight clothing pushing and pressing sexual flesh into the public eye and there is no moral outrage over it. In fact, when I wrote about it in this column, some ignorant asshead Feminatzis accused me of hating women and being a sexist for my own moral outrage.
Go figure.
You see, there are a lot of people who enable the abuse of Black women, including some Black women. It’s counterintuitive and counterproductive to lay the blame squarely at the feet of Black men or to ever claim that Black men fail to protect Black women and yet expect Black men to lead in the protection of anyone, when many members of that group fail to protect themselves.
It’s like Black people supporting the Wayans family, Martin Lawrence, Flavor Flav or many of the Buffoonish Black Coons of Comedy and rap sellouts who make Black people look bad on the world stage and then expecting white people to protect our image.
If you want respect, you must first respect yourself.
And, it’s difficult for Black women to make demands of Black men, when far too many Black women are far too willing to toss Black men under the bus for personal gain or for nothing at all.
This includes the proliferation of the Down Low myth, propagated by Black women more than anyone; the myth of more Black men being in prison than college and the ever-popular claim of Black men’s undying love and lust for white women. All popular myths that fall from the lips of Black women more than any other group of people in this nation.
The ignorant bag of crap JL King has recently released a DVD designed to educate people on how to recognize a Down Low Black man. Instead of challenging this asshole to do some real research or shut up, many Black women are passing his promotions around as though he is speaking from the Bible.
So, before we get to shaming Black men into standing up for Black women more than Black women are apparently willing to stand up for themselves, we must address the question of why too many Black women fail to stand up for their brothers, sons and husbands.
Really, we must ask ourselves: who’s hating whom?
Do Black women hate Black men?
We know that during the primary election, many Black women decided that it was in their best interests to support Senator Hillary Clinton because she was a woman, as opposed to supporting Senator Barack Obama because he was Black. So, if in fact the choice was made to assert womanhood over Blackness, doesn’t that also mean that the choice was made to assert their interests as women over the interests of their husbands, sons and brothers?
Take the case in point in California. Congresswoman Maxine Waters and LA County Supervisor Yvonne Burke both represent constituencies that were overwhelmingly pro-Obama, yet both decided to go sharply against their constituency and support Clinton.
Were they hating on Obama?
But, really, let’s go back to the R. Kelly case and examine some of the messages that came from it.
What we heard from many of the Black women who were outraged over Kelly’s acquittal is that Black men fail to protect Black women and girls, particularly from the oversexualization of modern entertainment.
But what we did not hear was that the same oversexualization of modern entertainment adversely affects Black men and boys. It’s as though having young Black boys growing up watching themselves marginalized as hungry sexual animals doesn’t do damage to their psyche or sense of self-worth.
Or it’s as though no one cares, because the focus has been on saving and/or protecting Black girls.
If Black women can challenge Black men to protect Black women and girls, then why is it wrong to challenge Black women to protect Black men and boys?
Why do people want to view the young girl in the R Kelly sex tape who was overly comfortable getting freaky with a grown man as a victim, but not the grown man who is sick enough to be sexually drawn to young girls?
Wasn’t R Kelly once a child? And if he is damaged, wasn’t he damaged as a young Black boy? Even if no one cares about him, what about other Black males like him?
I already know the answer. Damn the male, save the female.
Really, we should be concerned about both males and females.
But, sadly, we see far too much focus on the uplift of Black women and girls, as opposed to Black people.
For example, organizations such as Black Girls Rock exist to raise the self-esteem of Black girls, where we used to be concerned about the condition of all Black children. Why wasn’t the organization named Black Children Rock? And why is their propaganda only aimed at getting people to view Black girls in a different light?
Ashley Dunn, a board member of that organization draws a clear line in the sand.
“The type of education Black women and Black men have had about the importance of Black women has been pretty much non-existent, and what they have seen hasn't been positive," said Dunn. "With that in mind, why would anyone get upset about a Black girl being abused and urinated on? She was nothing anyway, and that is how both women and men feel in our community."
Really? Are Black girls being abused and devalued or are Black children—male and female—being abused and devalued?
Where is the education about the importance of Black men? Isn’t much of what we see negative?
In nearly every corner, young Black boys are being devalued. They are told that they are destined to be gang members, drug dealers, prisoners above college students, harbingers of AIDS, lovers of white women and haters of Black women.
And, in efforts to protect Black women and girls, Black men and boys are typically thrown under the bus as the perpetrators of all things bad and absent from all things good in the Black community.
What the hell does that do to the psyche and self-esteem of Black boys?
Where is the outrage? Particularly since some of that anti-Black male propaganda comes from Black women?
If Black men and boys are doing so horribly in society, why then are there no Herculean efforts to save them?
And why are there so many Black women telling us how horrible we are?
We hear far too many stories of single Black mothers telling their Black male children that their destiny is to become the same kind of garbage as their father who abandoned them.
Talk to Black men who were educated in public schools and you will hear plentiful stories of how they were devalued by Black female educators.
I have one of my own.
Even though I had good grades, I was a discipline problem after the death of my stepfather, grandmother and brother all during my sophomore year in high school. I managed to pull things together by my senior year (thanks to some strong Black men who stepped in), yet the Black female college career counselor at my school tried to discourage me from going to college. She told me that I was not college material, that I would never amount to anything and that I should instead join the military.
Delivering such messages is abusive and devaluing.
The problem is that if we only focus on one side and not both, we end up tacitly diminishing the one side not given focus.
The question that must be asked is whether Black women actually hate Black men.
Or we must at least ask whether they are concerned about the plight of their brothers, sons and husbands.
Next Week: The Hole At My End Of Our Boat.
Darryl James is an award-winning author of the forthcoming powerful anthology “Notes From The Edge.” Discounted Autographed and Numbered Pre-Release copies can be ordered at www.darryljames.com. He released his first mini-movie, “Crack,” and this year, will release his first full-length documentary. View previous installments of this column at www.bridgecolumn.proboards36.com. Reach James at djames@theblackgendergap.com.
http://www.eurweb.com/story/eur45070.cfm
(I'm in agreement w/virtually NOTHING he has said; nevertheless it's prob'ly something that needed to be heard, plus I've enjoyed reading many of his posts.) |
Chrishayden
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Do Black women hate Black men?
(Not all of them, of course. And it is better than it was when I was coming up.
But lots of black people hate their own personal black self, because they are black.
So naturally black men will hate black women, black women hate black men, old blacks hate young ones, etc etc etc)
Most of them will never cop to it. Nothing you can do.
Try to love your own personal self. Then you can love others.
Good place to start. |
Cynique
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This is all subtefuge - excuses, excuses. Two, three, or four wrongs don't make a right. To exonerate R. Kelly sets a precedent. You can't deny that adults, male or female, have a responsibility to shield minors from sexual predators. If they don't, then they are all wrong. 
Of course, the situation could be debated if the premise was advanced that men are basically primitive and the penis is, therfore, mightier than the brain.  |
Ferociouskitty
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Everyone has failed black children. I don't ever see the point in pointing out the failures of one gender over the other, aside from a personal ax to grind, because no gender has a monopoly on fuckery or on sainthood. We can all do better. |
Ferociouskitty
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But lots of black people hate their own personal black self, because they are black.
Amen. And I believe this self-hate masquerades all-too-often as misogny as well as the "black men ain't shit" mentality. And the self-hate is so transparent that the ones ranting are the last to know.
I'm not saying this is the case with Darryl James, however. I haven't read much of his stuff, but I do recall a funny piece he wrote again about drink pimps (women who will only give men conversation in exchange for drinks). |
Chrishayden
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Of course, the situation could be debated if the premise was advanced that men are basically primitive and the penis is, therfore, mightier than the brain.
(It is. I was watching Great Balls of Fire the other night. Jerry Lee Lewis, a man who had the world by the tail, threw it all away because he had the hots for his 13 year old cousin.
He always said, though that at least he married his. Elvis' affair with Priscilla gave his managers nightmares |
Chrishayden
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We're all of us dirtbags, men and women.
Only by rigorous self criticism and self examination do we not all go down the tube.
Look at that TV show they have on where they trap the sexual predators. Almost all of them white and middle class. Doctors. lawyers. Cops. Firemen. Clergymen.
A hard Johnson has no conscience and knows no discrimination. Neither does a pie that's on fire. |
Ferociouskitty
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Neither does a pie that's on fire.
Stick a fork in me...I'm done. LOL. |
Abm
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I agree with James that Black women very often enable the misogyny they complain about. And the R. Kelly fiasco was a GLARING example of such.
Black women complain about being sexually marginalized yet there's never any shortage of BW who'll flash and sling T.A.P. for greater fun, cash and opportunities.
I agree there ain't NOBODY who can rhetorically bash Black men in the way and to the great depths that Black women can.
And as long as Black females are perceived to be soley the victims of sexual and domestic crime, abuse and violence while Black males are solely deemed the villains and perpetrators of such, our collective misfortunes will continue and worsen.
I know foks who knew R. Kelly when he was a kid. And THEY speak of him to be as much a victim as they do a villain. |
Chrishayden
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Black women complain about being sexually marginalized yet there's never any shortage of BW who'll flash and sling T.A.P. for greater fun, cash and opportunities.
(I'm not sure that ALL black women should have to pay for the actions of a mercenary few)
I agree there ain't NOBODY who can rhetorically bash Black men in the way and to the great depths that Black women can
(Have you ever gone by a Klan site? Have you ever read any old newspapers, especially from the South? Have you ever read any of theworks of apologists for slavery?
I'll take a tonguelashing from a black woman every time. Few of them have denied us our humanity. Called us monkies and apes.
I don't think black women have ever told anybody we had tails) |
Abm
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Chris,
Chris: "I'm not sure that ALL black women should have to pay for the actions of a mercenary few"
You mean like how Black MEN are OFTEN made to endure of what a few other nuggas do?
Chris: "Have you ever gone by a Klan site? Have you ever read any old newspapers, especially from the South? Have you ever read any of theworks of apologists for slavery?"
Man. The Klan is about as potent as a pecker on a 100 year old dead White man. BW - especially those who birth, raise and educate us, our son and grandsons - can do a hellovalot WORSE damage to Black men than some toothless crackers in Alabama.
But I do agree with you on one point: "I'll take a tonguelashing from a black woman every time."
Though I'm not sure if we agree on WHERE and HOW that tongue might be best applied.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! |
Chrishayden
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You mean like how Black MEN are OFTEN made to endure of what a few other nuggas do?
(I don't play that game. People come up with that "WE" sh*t. Unless I did it personally, or somebody I know that I can influence I will not and do not take the weight for anything any crazy nigga does.
Not till all white people take the weight for Jeffery Dahmer, John Dillinger, Al Capone and on and on til the break of dawn
That's some old slavery time stuff) |
Tonya
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And that there is the difference between white and Black men. When white folk from the boonies down in W. Virginia are getting fucked ALL white men including the ones in the media are being fucked as well.
They DO play that game. That's how their children stay fed. |
Ntfs_encryption
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"I agree with James that Black women very often enable the misogyny they complain about. And the R. Kelly fiasco was a GLARING example of such."
I agree. It was a perfect opportunity to send a message to a sick pedophile who has a history of sexually abusing young black women. They refused to do so. It's documented and not debatable. Too often black women refuse to take responsibility for enabling and empowering these knuckleheads and thugs. I just got back from Ohio and I saw more than I wanted. Not saying that it is exclusive to Ohio but I had an in depth up close look at the thug coonery that so many black women rail against. Yet they sleep, have babies and support the very men they condemn and harshly criticize. Don't like fleas? Then don't lay with dogs. End of subject.....
"Black women complain about being sexually marginalized yet there's never any shortage of BW who'll flash and sling T.A.P. for greater fun, cash and opportunities."
Uhhhhh....Good point. And I'd like to hear someone explain why. Any takers.....????
"I agree there ain't NOBODY who can rhetorically bash Black men in the way and to the great depths that Black women can."
True. And much of it is merited. No question about it. Yet, as I said, they enable and support the outrageous coonery they condemn.
"Man. The Klan is about as potent as a pecker on a 100 year old dead White man. BW - especially those who birth, raise and educate us, our son and grandsons - can do a hellovalot WORSE damage to Black men than some toothless crackers in Alabama."
True again. The Klan has zero impact o the quality of life of black Americans as a group. That time has past. This is not 1885 when the Klan was lynching, murdering, beating, intimidating and directly impacting the lives of countless blacks. Today, these inbreed redneck crackers (Klan) have been replaced by hard core violent Negro thugs and gangsta rap video brain washed fools who will not hesitate for one second to put a bullet in your skull for the slightest perception of disrespect or eye balling. They are the ones who are terrorizing and holding black communities hostage -not the Klan. |
Cynique
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Black women who complain about being "sexually marginalized" are not the same ones who'll "flash and sling T.A.P. for greater fun, cash and opportunities".
There is a dichotomy among black women. There are the self-respecting ones who admire strong, decent men, and the opportunisitic ones who exploit weak dogs. And so it goes. |
Ntfs_encryption
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"There are the self-respecting ones who admire strong, decent men, and the opportunisitic ones who exploit weak dogs. And so it goes."
True....true. But unfortunately, too many are willing to compromise, support and enable the very knuckleheads they passionately criticize. That's the behavior I don't understand. As a man, I would not tolerate nor date women who were professional hustling skeezers and skanks and didn't work. The ones who daily demonstrate no respect for themselves or the courageous history of black American women. Instead, they think it is hip, cool or in vogue to have babies for sagging-tattooed-never-had-a-job-uneducated-street coons. I just talked to a friend of mine last night who has a 24 year old son. THIS YOUNG MAN DROPPED OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL IN THE 10TH GRADE, HAS NEVER, REPEAT-NEVER HAD A JOB, REUSES TO WORK OR GO TO SCHOOL. WTF...???!!!
I asked her how does he live and support himself. She said she didn't know and didn't want to know. She did concede that he lives with different girls and leeches off them. He has one baby by one girl and she thinks he currently has another young black woman pregnant. WHY??? The sista gurls rant and rave about the knuckleheads yet they are compelled to sleep with them and provide quarters for these no working thugs. Whose fault is it when they end up with two, three or more children with men who clearly have no intentions of providing for their children or the women they exploit? Hard questions and I've yet to hear a clear definitive answer. |
Chrishayden
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As a man, I would not tolerate nor date women who were professional hustling skeezers and skanks and didn't work
(If the right one came along and whipped it on you real good you would eat a whole bucket of her shit and have dinner ready when she came home from hustling.
Any time I hear somebody say what he wouldn't do I know this is somebody who will do just that when he gets good and pussywhipped) |
Ntfs_encryption
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"If the right one came along and whipped it on you real good you would eat a whole bucket of her shit and have dinner ready when she came home from hustling."
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! I don't think so. That's what you would do Chris. You're the one who is out patrolling the streets at 0530 in the morning, looking for your favorite street ho's with dollar bills falling out your pockets, trying to talk the daily close out prices down -not me! |
Nuuon
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As an example of Black women facilitating their own abuse, check
out the following piece called, "Sister Please!: Lauren London -
Ignorance Personified." Published on the website "whataboutourdaughters"
(http://whataboutourdaughters.blogspot.com/)
Most telling in the piece, the three quotations of Black men provided
which give just a small taste of how many Black men are responding to
the Black women "who hate them."
Sister Please!: Lauren London - Ignorance Personified
Continuing on our theme over the past few weeks of Black women behaving badly. Sorry folks, but the hits keep coming.
This time courtesy of Lauren London.
I love guys who are street. I won’t even give soft guys a chance.
Menace II Society is my shit! Caine was like my first crush.
Actually, O-Dog was my true dream guy. I was in love with him,
from that opening scene where he pops the convenience-store
worker. He had me from that gunshot [laughs]. He was ’hood,
and I loved that. [Sandra Rose]
And miles to go before I sleep. Miles to go...So shooting someone in the head is attractive? You know that Caine dies at the end of the movie right? Ignorance Personified. So what is being produced to combat the likes of Lauren London? If Menace II Society is what she wants her mate to model himself after, which movies offer the other alternative?
So of course because demonizing Black women and blaming us for all that is wrong in the world is par for the course, somehow Ms. London's Ignorance has been imputed on all of us and we have been blamed for being witches and enchantresses who force Black men to break the law and commit murder. Who knew Black women had such power? I mean if we had mind control, surely we'd use it for something far more important.
As ticked off as I am at Lauren London spreading her ignorance with the masses, I do not accept the idiotic argument that Black women who love thugs drive men to engage in crime and violence as has been suggested by critics of Lauren London (Sgt. Willie Pete). Don't try to paint all Black women with the same brush because black men would be the first to howl at the moon if we tried to say that they were all like the characters in Menace II Society. All Black people, men and women ought to be rising up against the entertainment industrial complex. This tiny group of people in LA and New York get to dictate the narrow range of Black humanity that gets displayed to the world and the slice they choose to show got scrapped from the bottom of the barrel.
Ignorance knows no gender and Lauren London's is being used as a strawwoman to unlease a flurry of Black woman hatred over at Satan's Playground, YouTube:
What happens if a black man like myself
1. Have a job
2. Have 3 college degrees and working towards a PH.D
3. Have no kids
4. Have a nice car
5. have his own place
5. have a vision for his future
Answer 0% chance in attracting a black woman! [conqueror2001]
I would not be surprised if the figures show 80% of black women single in the nxt 10 years. The African American female mentality is f#@ked up, ever from since Slavery, black women do not value the greatness of good EDUCATED black men, if they did, why is the black community so fucked up? Yet they are the Rock the foundation? So if they dating thugs and call educated black men losers, so what the f#@k is she? a princess a Queen right? Type in @ss shakin on youtube, tell me how many Queens you see. [NYTHUG11226]
That's why i don't even f#@k with black women anymore. Damn near every black female I come in contact with has that same damn mindset. I know all you are going to hate but this man is speaking the truth. Get a white girl like Tiger Woods or 75% of the n#@gas in the NFL. [iramaj]
Yep. YouTube is still the Devil. |
Ntfs_encryption
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"I would not be surprised if the figures show 80% of black women single in the nxt 10 years. The African American female mentality is f#@ked up, ever from since Slavery, black women do not value the greatness of good EDUCATED black men, if they did, why is the black community........... how many Queens you see. [NYTHUG11226]
That's why i don't even f#@k with black women anymore. Damn near every black female I come in contact with has that same damn mindset. I know all you are going to hate but this man is speaking the truth. Get a white girl like Tiger Woods or 75% of the n#@gas in the NFL."
Whew! Wow! Well, there ya have it. No more to be said about this subject......... |
Carey
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Utt oooh....I see the mask being lowered. You can run but you can't hide. Peek A Boo....I see you!
Put down them pom-poms man, come on out. Tell us what's really goin on????? |
Chrishayden
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As an example of Black women facilitating their own abuse, check
out the following piece called, "Sister Please!: Lauren London -
Ignorance Personified." Published on the website "whataboutourdaughters"
(http://whataboutourdaughters.blogspot.com/)
Most telling in the piece, the three quotations of Black men provided
which give just a small taste of how many Black men are responding to
the Black women "who hate them."
(This is why some people should not be allowed to use the internet--one person posts something like this, the internet nerd freaks out and starts screaming that all black women are no good etc.
Get off the damn computer and meet some real people. Face it, you don't know if whoever posted under the name Lauren London is black, white, or even a MAN posting under a woman's name.
GET OUT IN THE REAL WORLD!!!
What happens if a black man like myself
1. Have a job
2. Have 3 college degrees and working towards a PH.D
3. Have no kids
4. Have a nice car
5. have his own place
5. have a vision for his future
Answer 0% chance in attracting a black woman! [conqueror2001]
(If this guy really had such a profile, he wouldn't be on the Internet.
If he is telling the truth,
MAYBE HE BETTER DO SOMETHING ABOUT HIS BREATH!!!) |
Cynique
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Humph. To be grammatically correct, chrishayden, you should have used "has" instead of "have" when listing your "assets"...  |
Ntfs_encryption
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"This is why some people should not be allowed to use the internet--one person posts something like this, the internet nerd freaks out......"
You mean someone like yourself....???
".....and starts screaming that all black women are no good etc."
No one is attempting to make a case against all black women. The controversy centers around the behavior of a sizable number of women. ALL BLACK WOMEN IS NOT THE ISSUE. You would be hard pressed to make such an argument against "all black women." Grab a Coke, take your Valium, take a deep breath and relax your hypersensitivity Chris.
"Get off the damn computer and meet some real people."
Chris, are you referring to yourself again?
"Face it, you don't know if whoever posted under the name Lauren London is black, white, or even a MAN posting under a woman's name."
Doesnt matter. If it's true, it's true.
"If this guy really had such a profile, he wouldn't be on the Internet."
If he had such a profile, he wouldn't be on the internet???? Uh huh.....I see....Well, no need to respond to that statement. You just made my case for me. Thanks....... |
Nels
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Username: Nels
Post Number: 1177
Registered: 07-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, July 15, 2008 - 08:54 pm: |
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Black women may not necessarily hate black men per se, but as a whole, in many parts of the country, they sure know how to turn them off. Envy, self-hate, self-disgust, self-pity, who knows. One thing's for sure, when you're in Los Angeles and even the "U-glee" one's turn their noses up, then the problem must be systemic(?). Hmmm... |
Ntfs_encryption
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Ntfs_encryption
Post Number: 3302
Registered: 10-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, July 16, 2008 - 03:19 am: |
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"Put down them pom-poms man, come on out."
Already did......
"Tell us what's really goin on?????"
Did that also.......... |
Ntfs_encryption
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Ntfs_encryption
Post Number: 3303
Registered: 10-2005
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, July 16, 2008 - 03:20 am: |
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"Black women may not necessarily hate black men per se, but as a whole, in many parts of the country, they sure know how to turn them off. Envy, self-hate, self-disgust, self-pity, who knows. One thing's for sure, when you're in Los Angeles and even the "U-glee" one's turn their noses up, then the problem must be systemic."
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Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 10154
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, July 16, 2008 - 10:53 am: |
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In Los Angeles, all the brothas are after White, Hispanic and Asian chicks. All the sistas (even the facially-challenged ones) are too uppity to be approached.
Dayam. LA sure is one crazya$s place! |
Cynique
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Cynique
Post Number: 12449
Registered: 01-2004
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Votes: 2 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, July 16, 2008 - 12:30 pm: |
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Why would you want to approach black women, Nels, since it's apparent that they aren't your cup of tea. Just get you an Asian or Hispanic of white women and move on. |
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