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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:08 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

'ABORT' SHOCK IN GIANT DIVORCE
TOOMER'S BABY FURY
By JEANE MacINTOSH and DAN MANGAN



SPLIT: Amani Toomer with wife Yola Dabrowski, who he says broke a vow to have kids with him.

February 26, 2007 -- Giants star Amani Toomer is splitting with his wife, claiming she not only reneged on a pact to have kids with the veteran wide receiver but went so far as to abort four pregnancies, according to bombshell court papers.

Toomer has sued to annul his marriage to Dr. Yola Dabrowski, who won't get a dime if a judge upholds Toomer's argument that she committed "fraud" when they wed. She is seeking a divorce.

The divorce trial is set to begin tomorrow in Hudson County, N.J., Family Court.

Toomer, 32, alleges his wife refused to have the "big family" they had discussed before getting hitched in a Las Vegas civil ceremony in October 2002.

"This false promise was never delivered," he charges in documents filed in court.

Instead, Dabrowski "had up to four" abortions "against Toomer's wishes [and] without his consent," the Giant claims.

The footballer also alleges that Dabrowski, 34, "refused to change her last name to Toomer," and won't cook, clean or take medication to treat her depression.

And, she allegedly "disrespected [his] integrity and manhood."

Dabrowski, a chiropractor and law-school student, vehemently denied the claims.

In her filings for divorce, she alleges "extreme cruelty," accusing Toomer of being "relentlessly demanding . . . insecure and paranoid."

The grid great insisted Dabrowski "cater to his every whim and need," she claims.

And when she didn't want to have sex, Toomer acted "irrationally and outrageously" - once urinating on her clothes, and another time tossing her BlackBerry into the Hudson River.


Dabrowski says she became "fearful" of having kids with Toomer, losing "all hope" that he would be "emotionally or physically available" to a child.

She also charges that Toomer, who helped pay for her education, was an overbearing hubby who later insisted she "back-burner" her goals so she could manage his finances, travel with him and entertain his family.

Despite months of mediation, Toomer and Dabrowski have not been able to reach a settlement.

Dabrowski, who has been granted $11,000 a month in temporary support, wants permanent alimony and half the couple's marital assets.

Toomer, who missed much of last season with a knee injury, is in the middle of a $20 million, five-year contract with the Giants.

Saying "all he ever wanted was for [Yola] to love and respect him," Toomer's filings also include claims that his wife:

* Quit marriage counseling after just two sessions, because she was "tired of lying to therapists."

* Does not like watching his games, and often ridicules instead of praises his play. She "even had the audacity to poke fun . . . when he made a catch [and] stumbled without being tackled," he alleges. And, she "always chose to travel [on vacations] separate" from him, opting to be alone and meet other people, making Toomer feel "abandoned and unloved."

* "Has begun smoking" although Toomer "has asthma and it is unhealthy for his profession to be near a smoker."

* "Basically abandoned" their Toomer Foundation, a charity they set up to help needy kids.

Dabrowski's papers complain that Toomer:

* Wouldn't let her sleep "unless she had sex with him" and harassed her by turning on the lights and television to force her from their bedroom.

* Sabotaged her dream of becoming a lawyer by stealing her computer and files, making it impossible to study for her law-school exams and leading to her getting an incomplete for the term.

* Was so "insecure" that he couldn't interact with his own family, friends, accountants, agents and publicists - and insisted Dabrowski do it for him.

* Forced her to put her chiropractic career on hold so she could spend two years decorating their $2 million West New York waterfront condo, "demanding" it "reflect a style and décor consistent with his position as an NFL athlete." After that was done, he told her they were moving - and made her do the same thing with the new place.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:17 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


The title of this article should be:

"ANOTHER BLACK MAN GETS PLAYED BY A WHITE WOMAN"

I wonder what they ever saw in each other and how long they knew each other before they got married - because this is a mismatched pair if there ever was one. It's too bad about the abortions but she clearly didn't want to have a long-term relationship with him. She was probably just along for the free ride.


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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:35 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

He Should Of Got Himself a Latina.
That WHITE TRASH CAVE BYTCH IS UGLY.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:38 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

OMG..where do they even get the cave people to raise men like this anymore?? This fucker is a real live Neanderthal, seriously. He's a fucking Neanderthal and she deserves every penny he's got. I'm with you all the way sister!! Poor thing.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:49 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Has she ever heard of birth control?
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:51 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Tonya,

Is it that you're truly empathetic to the wife here?

Or are you just getting off on the possibility of a White woman marrying brotha getting his nutes handed to him Special Delivery?
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:51 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

BB123,

Yeah. She calls it Abortion.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:57 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Gee, they are both the racial prototypes! Their kids would've been beautiful. Too bad they couldn't stay together but what can you expect when a dog marries a pussy? snicker
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 03:58 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

LOL That is truly sad.

I just don't understand why women get knocked up so many times and don't use protection or take birth control pills..with all the damn PSA commercials more should know better.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 04:03 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

BB123,

My guess is they're BOTH some fairly dumb foks. So, perhaps in the grander evolutionary scheme of things, it's better they NOT reproduce.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 04:04 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


Maybe she got pregnant because that's what he wanted and then she lied and told him she had a miscarriage or something.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 04:06 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Nikkas falling for the I Really LOVE you My Big Strong Black MAYNE Okey Doke from these White skanks.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 04:07 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Another case of a castrated, white worshipping, house Negro getting his ass handed to him by some white woman. I love how you brothas see it as a "status symbol" to play a White womans bytch. He let this silly, cornfed, white bytch play his ass. And how dare you say this chick aborted "Black" babies. How dare you plantation negroes sit around and throw the title "Black" at anyone. She aborted her bi-racial babies.

She probably wanted to go back to dating white men and live in her white neighborhood and realized she couldn't do it comfortably "lugging" some half-breed babies around. She knows that your average white man wouldn't touch her skank ass knowing that she had been "sucking off" a black man all those years.

So go ahead Lil_ze & Eastwest give that brotha a "High Five". Because he got to do something that brothas like you always want to do and that is play a "White womans bytch".

You know what is also funny is that this same brotha will still run around and demonize Black women saying that they are "too loud", and got "too much attitude" etc.

GIVE ME A BREAK!!
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 04:09 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

SHE DISREPECTED HIS MANHOOD PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE!! TRUTH BE TOLD SHE NEVER SAW HIS WHITE WORSHIPPING ASS AS A REAL MAN ANYWAY!!! SHE PROBABLY REGARDED HIM AS LITTLE MORE THAN A " NEUTERED HOUSE PET".
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 04:48 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

i met amani a couple times before he seemed like an alright dude to me, that's too bad his dirty laundry got aired ... but i guess all is fair in hate & divorce. i always thought that athletes should never get married until they are done with their careers, which averages about to the age of 30. half of those guys end up getting a divorce to their wives whether their black, white, latina, or asian because when they are done playing their sport then they are forced to actually spend time with their mates. oh well... i know alot of you see it as some sort of vindication, that's your perogative of course. but like i said he was a cool dude to me, so i wish him the best.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 06:15 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


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Tonya, Is it that you're truly empathetic to the wife here? Or are you just getting off on the possibility of a White woman marrying brotha getting his nutes handed to him Special Delivery?




Abm, honestly, women are always made to suffer humiliation on such a blatant, sub-human level. But there are times when it's so egregious, like this case, yet it’s expected to go unchallenged...even by the woman involved. She can't say anything. No one else is supposed to say anything. Soooo no one usually does. And I can’t wrap my head around this---I can't. So it drives me insane I guess. It has nothing to do with color, tho. It's a woman thing; you won't understand.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 06:22 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

And I can't debate you on this one, Abm. Because I can't read this article all the way through.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 06:35 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Serena Faggot How am I playing with a white woman
when my Girl friend is half brazilian/half east african?
I perfer Brazilian women.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 10:13 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Abm, honestly, women are always made to suffer humiliation on such a blatant, sub-human level. But there are times when it's so egregious, like this case, yet it’s expected to go unchallenged...even by the woman involved. She can't say anything. No one else is supposed to say anything. Soooo no one usually does. And I can’t wrap my head around this---I can't. So it drives me insane I guess. It has nothing to do with color, tho. It's a woman thing; you won't understand.

Tonya, How dare you sit up there and and have empathy for this used up white bytch. This bytch nor her racist, colorstruck, self-loathing Negrosoid pet couldn't give a about yo Black ass. What type of degredation do/have White women ever suffered??

No, Tonya you are not the same as this woman. Her social level is much different than yours. She is White and she is a woman. Just because you are both women does not make you the SAME!! She, like her other white, female counterparts lead a priviledged existance. You have nothing and I mean NOTHING in common with this bytch.
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Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 - 10:34 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

i met amani a couple times before he seemed like an alright dude to me, that's too bad his dirty laundry got aired ... but i guess all is fair in hate & divorce. i always thought that athletes should never get married until they are done with their careers, which averages about to the age of 30. half of those guys end up getting a divorce to their wives whether their black, white, latina, or asian because when they are done playing their sport then they are forced to actually spend time with their mates. oh well... i know alot of you see it as some sort of vindication, that's your perogative of course. but like i said he was a cool dude to me, so i wish him the best.


I'M SURE YOU DO ADMIRE HIM SINCE YOU ATTAIN TO BE A WHITE WOMAN'S BYTCH JUST LIKE HIM!!!!!
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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 12:05 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Serenasailor, I don't know how to respond because I don't understand you.

Please answer these questions:

Is she a bytch because she's white, privileged, ect; or did she do something wrong in this relationship from what you read--if so, what?

What kind of MAN is he? Not Black man, colorstruck racist "Negrosoid" pet, or anything like that. Based on this article, what kind of MAN do you think he is?

And is it REALLY your opinion that people from different races and walks of life can/should never empathize with one another---if not, what did you mean?
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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 12:41 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

amani toomer's wife (ex) is actually not bad looking.

but i just don't know if i could marry some white woman, when there are so many light skin beauties out there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but seriously, alot of these black sports guys (michael strahan also, amani's teammate), seem to go through VERY messy divorces from their white companions.

i wonder if some of these black sports guys have ever heard of a country called BRAZIL?

if i had MILLIONS of dollars, i don't think id be dealing with some white female, who's looks will fade with age.

id have the FINEST brazilian wife EVER!!!

it does seem to me like some of these black sports guys, do have the "white trophey wife" fever.

screw that. there are just to many dam fine latin females (black latin females also), that actually know how to treat men (and im NOT saying black american females don't).

for all of the "divorce" headaches and money these black sports guys lose in these divorces, these guys probably could have bought an entire VILLAGE of women in a latin country, and lived happily ever after!
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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 12:49 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"Giants star Amani Toomer is splitting with his wife, claiming she not only reneged on a pact to have kids with the veteran wide receiver but went so far as to abort four pregnancies, according to bombshell court papers."

Yawn.......Whatever. So what? Just leave her, get a life and move on. End of subject.


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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 02:37 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"Permanent alimony" of $11,000 a month after refusing to have his baby. ROFLMAO...and still not a golddigger. LOL

(Meanwhile Shequita's a golddigger if she asks for child support for four kids).
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Anyone who aborts ALL of your babies probably isn't expecting to stay around for long. But then again, kids are just for 18 years.....$11,000 per month is forever... LOL

(ooooh, and she won't have any children to tote around on those long weekends in the Maldives? gonna be LIVING IT UP!) LOL

I don't blame her though.....if you can GET IT LIKE THAT, YOU GET IT LIKE THAT.

What a chump ass he is!
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"i wonder if some of these black sports guys have ever heard of a country called BRAZIL?"

Yep! I have! Booty capital of the planet earth (no exceptions!) with the most exotic, beautiful, friendly and sexy women in the human race. If you're man and if you're good, when ya die, ya go to heaven -it's in Brazil! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!

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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 03:19 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Have to say, though, that lied about being forced to decorate his home. ANY woman can tell you that if you're getting a 2 million dollar home, ain't no way in hell you're letting a MAN decorate it....what? so he can put an antelope's head on the wall and bearskin rug on the floor next to the barcalounger? If a man DOES decorate it, he'd better have a boyfriend named Twan and a 700.00 weave.
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ntfs, you are SO right.

the women of brazil have got to be the most beautiful on earth.

because of the history of that country, you have females that look white, black, and EVERYTHING in between.

i met a female from brazil today, even though her english ws not so good, she was just SO dam friendly.

too bad, she was married.

but the women of brazil are the BEST!

i just wish i could get a handle on the language.

spanish is easy.

brazilian portugese is a VERY hard language to learn (atleast for english speakers).

brazilian females are just too beautiful!
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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 08:05 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Tonya,

It's interesting how without even reading the article you manage to you peg the wife to be a living symbol of universal female suffering.

READ the article, babe. That chick ain't nobody's victim.


All,

Perhaps I'm being biased to Toomer. But it does appear he has much more cause to divorce (e.g., "Has begun smoking" although Toomer "has asthma and it is unhealthy for his profession to be near a smoker.") than does his wife (e.g., "Forced her to put her chiropractic career on hold so she could spend two years decorating their $2 million West New York waterfront condo.").
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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 09:14 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

for all of the "divorce" headaches and money these black sports guys lose in these divorces, these guys probably could have bought an entire VILLAGE of women in a latin country, and lived happily ever after!


Latina_WI: Oh please! Lil_ze; I am going to level with you here. When you go to places like Brasil et cetera these women are playing your arse just like this woman played this Amani guy.

The women in Brasil et cetera are only interested because you are from the western world and therefore think you have money. You may already know this BUT how can you be seriously interested in a woman who would probably stab you in the back if it made her richer?

Look at this girl, she had four abortions like it was f'ckin contraception. This Amani guy is a jackarse! You should get to know your mate before you decide to make lifelong vows or else everyone gets hurt.

You know what, you could be right. Maybe he should have gone to the prostution capital in Brasil and found himself a woman there. At least they would have both had a mutual understanding of what eachother wants!
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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 11:26 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


Yeah Z - What Latina W said. You're just a man-ho and I hope your lil dick falls off.
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ABM, I just read the article and I stand by everything I said. IF being forced to have a "big family," change your last name, cook, clean and take medication is not sexist...I don't know what IS.

The person who’s nobody’s victim (but his own) is Amani Toomer. And I still don't see what this has to do with Black babies.
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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 01:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I agree with doberman23. These athletes should wait until retirement until they get married.
As for Amani, who knows if he had a preference for white women or he married her for who she is/was. They both seem immature and selfish and not suited for marriage.
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Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2007 - 06:17 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Tonya,

I don't know the specifics of what Amani required of her or how such was present. But I can think of a lot WORSE things a man might expect of his wife than her having his kids, keeping a well-kept home and taking his last name. In fact, I can imagine there being very few RICH men who'd expect LESS than that.

What SHOULD the wife of wealthy, high profile husband do, anyway? Just look pretty, shop a lot and/or sit on her a$$ and watch soap operas all day?
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Posted on Thursday, March 01, 2007 - 01:57 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Abm,


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I don't know the specifics of what Amani required of her or how such was present. But I can think of a lot WORSE things a man might expect of his wife than her having his kids, keeping a well-kept home and taking his last name. In fact, I can imagine there being very few RICH men who'd expect LESS than that.





First of all, a man should never "require" anything from his spouse. That in and of itself is disrespectful. He is NOT her boss---and I doubt that she is the type to expect her marriage to be some sort of hooker/john arrangement; her refusal to have his children shows how smart she really is and she is a doctor working on a law degree. And as the intelligent professional woman that she seems to be, I most certainly understand why his ignorant ass bone-headed-bare-foot & pregnant DEMANDS are offensive and insulting to her and COMPLETELY against HER WISHES. She did not spend all those years in school to stay home and be his maid! And I'm sorry but he should have known this. Regardless of how RICH he is, it should have been clear to him that the path she chose for herself was leading in the direction of a professional career. Really, if he expected her to be his bare-foot/pregnant/maid....not only is he sexist....he's got to be stupid too.


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I can think of a lot WORSE things a man might expect of his wife than her having his kids, keeping a well-kept home and taking his last name.




I can think of some too:

Urinating on her clothes (nasty bastard)

Tossing her BlackBerry into the Hudson River

Forcing her to take medication

Demanding that she have his CRAZY ASS KIDS...

(I do not blame her for not wanting to have kids with that nutty jackass.)

Expecting her to handle all his family/business affairs because he was too much of a punk ass pusillanimous WUSSY (characteristic of men that abuse women).

And:

* Sabotaged her dream of becoming a lawyer by stealing her computer and files, making it impossible to study for her law-school exams and leading to her getting an incomplete for the term.

* Forced her to put her chiropractic career on hold so she could spend two years decorating their $2 million West New York waterfront condo, "demanding" it "reflect a style and décor consistent with his position as an NFL athlete." After that was done, he told her they were moving - and made her do the same thing with the new place.
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"i would have you know that the HEAD of EVERY WOMAN is the MAN", and the HEAD of EVERYMAN is CHRIST".

like it or not tonya, the MAN is in charge in a relationship.

the reason there are so many divorces, is beacause some women have this idea that the marriage relationship is an equal partnership.

gee, the thought of a woman actually having children and taking care of them, turns into being a "barefoot/pregnant/maid"?

how stupid.

most people want to have children after being married.

she can follow her "career goals" after she has children.

the window of oppertunity for a feamle to have children is not that large.

since when did being a MOTHER=being a maid?

wow, the feminist/lesbian mentallity has REALLY got some people confused.

i suppose if some LESBIAN tells american females that they should have "careers" instead of being mothers, then i guess some women will follow their LESBIAN lead, and put motherhood on the "back burner".

amani toomer actually wanted to have children with his wife?

what an EVIL man!
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Nothing wrong with him wanting children, especially if she suggested she wanted them too Lil_ze.

There is something wrong with a man who puts his wife through college (like I am sure Amani did) and then expects her not to pursue her career. WTF?
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Tonya,

Let's try, if you can, to tone down the feministic cant some.

K?

First, no smart person marries without attempting to garner some assurances with respect to what his-her spouse is and will do.

I don't see ANYTHING wrong with a husband wanting his wife to bear his kids, name and take care of his home IF he's willing to and capable of providing her resources and support to facilitate her safely, comfortably doing such.

Likewise, a husband should support his wife life and career aspirations, again, provided she provides him the means to do such.

Now. What's NOT been adequately presented here is the extent to which what Toomer and Dabrowski wanted/needed were discussed and agree upon, especially PRIOR to their marrying.

Have either or both of them RENEGED on prior agreements?

Or did not clearly and fairly express what they want/need PRIOR to committing to each other?

The answers to those answer to those questions determine whether either/both have been mistreated.


And perhaps it's unfair to debate and wallow in the accusations that are being hurled between them (e.g., his destroying her computer, she abandoning his foundation, etc.) Because what might have happened is they initially supported each other plans and activities until it became clear to both of them the other was NOT going to do/be the spouse he-she wanted/needed.
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Posted on Thursday, March 01, 2007 - 03:57 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"Let's try, if you can, to tone down the feministic cant some. K?"

Not til you ease up on some of the testosterone... It's clouding your senses and draining your intelligence, btw.
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I don't see ANYTHING wrong with a husband wanting his wife to bear his kids, name and take care of his home IF he's willing to and capable of providing her resources and support to facilitate her safely, comfortably doing such.




There's a difference. WANTING something and FORCING someone (by means of torture through sleep deprivation) are two very different things.. so it’s WRONG if it isn't what SHE WANTS yet he's trying to FORCE it upon her. And his money doesn't change this, money isn't a stand-in for basic human decency. He has no more rights to the dehumanization of another than a poor--or white--man.


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Now. What's NOT been adequately presented here is the extent to which what Toomer and Dabrowski wanted/needed were discussed and agree upon, especially PRIOR to their marrying. Have either or both of them RENEGED on prior agreements? Or did not clearly and fairly express what they want/need PRIOR to committing to each other?




She would not take on his last name when they were married, ABM. That's a DEAD GIVEAWAY for someone with AT LEAST a vaguely feminist mindset. He should have known THEN that she wasn't the type to play Susie homemaker. And when he SAW her advancing her career as a chiropractor towards a law degree (which makes sense, chiropractors handle lots of accident patients) he should have known that she's serious about a demanding career OF HER OWN.


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...what might have happened is they initially supported each other plans and activities until it became clear to both of them the other was NOT going to do/be the spouse he-she wanted/needed.




Exactly. She was all for having the kids BEFORE finding out that he's nutty and emotional; and BEFORE she realized that he is a whinny immature brat himself, who cries when people laugh at him fumbling his little woodle football, awwwe.
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Tonya Girl - Sometimes you just crack me up
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It's Not Cheaper To Keep Her!!!


TOOMER A FREE AGENT AFTER DIVORCE SETTLEMENT
By LORENA MONGELLI
March 1, 2007

Giants star Amani Toomer can focus on football again - he and his wife reached a settlement yesterday in their bitter breakup battle.

Toomer and Dr. Yola Dabrowski reached the agreement after about six hours of closed-door discussions in Hudson County Family Court.

The wide receiver hugged his lawyer and pumped his fist in the air when the secret settlement was reached.

"I think it's a great day," he said. "Personally, for me, I'm just really happy right now."

His wife, who'd been hoping for a large chunk of his football fortune, didn't seem to be so happy.

"It's a bittersweet day," said Dabrowski as tears welled in her eyes.

The attorneys scurried back and forth between conference rooms before hammering out a nine-page settlement.

The terms were undisclosed but were called fair by both Toomer and his wife's lawyer, Tom Snyder.

"It is what it is. I'm glad that it's over," said Toomer. "It's fair to both parties. I mean, it wasn't great for me, it wasn't great for her, but it was just one of these things that you kind of meet in the middle. And that's how things get resolved. I'm ready to move on."

Toomer's lawyers also withdrew their "annulment" and "cruelty" complaints, making the settlement easier to reach, according to the attorneys.

http://www.nypost.com/seven/03012007/news/regionalnews/toomer_a_free_agent_after_divorce_settlement_regionalnews_lorena_mongelli.htm


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"His wife, who'd been hoping for a large chunk of his football fortune, didn't seem to be so happy."

Good.......



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Posted on Friday, March 02, 2007 - 11:26 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Tonya,

"...torture"?

"...sleep deprivation"?

"...dehumanization"?

"...immature brat..."?

HAHAHAHAHA!!!

Girl, you're cracking me UP!

I mean, you're doing a better SPIN job for the Dabrowski than her ATTORNEY appears to have done.

And it seems she could really used your help. Because based on Toomer's/Dabrowski's response to how their divorce was decided, whoever decided/arbitrated their divorce did NOT buy much of Dabrowski's arguments/accusations.

But then, I'm sure you will - being the good firebreathing feminist you be - assert whoever decided/arbitrated was probably just another man who's hellbent on perpetuating the male-dominated, misogynistic patriarchal system. Right?
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Ntfs,

I think whoever decided/arbitrated their divorce easily figured out chick was golddigging from the giddy-up and did the RIGHT thing.

You shouldn't be able to use marriage to scam a man of his dough just cause you're skinny, blond and (somewhat) pretty.
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His wife, who'd been hoping for a large chunk of his football fortune, didn't seem to be so happy. ‘It’s a bittersweet day,' said Dabrowski as tears welled in her eyes.




The woman just got a divorce. How "happy" is she supposed to be? Apparently she was more committed to their marriage and cared more about it than her jackass ex-husband did. POOR THING!! Not poor for long though, it appears she got something and something Big:


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The terms were undisclosed but were called fair by both Toomer and his wife's lawyer, Tom Snyder.

"It is what it is. I'm glad that it's over," said Toomer.

"It's fair to both parties. I mean, it wasn't great for me, it wasn't great for her, but it was just one of these things that you kind of meet in the middle.




Ha-ha!!!!!!!!!!

Not bad for a girl who was probl’y like the rest of us before they met, two paychecks away from homelessness.

You Go Girl!!!!!!!

Read correctly and written without a slant: Her lawyers did just fine. :-)
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I highly doubt she had four abortions -he proably physically abused her or something. And I'm sure the root cause of her issues were due to his super-ego. He's, more than likely, the typical, rich, male athlete who feels his money entitles him to "own" any woman he's with -regardless of color. And his soon-to-be ex just happens to be white. I'm glad she divorced him though, because she should have never married him to begin with. I'm even more glad that they didn't procreate. She's definitely not gorgeous -average, at best. But as far as I'm concerned, he looks like an iguana. She could be with a man who is much more attractive.



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Ntfs,

You know, the more I read/listen to the views of women, the more I KNOW there's nowayinDEEHELL I'd ever consider remarrying if my marriage fell through.

In fact, honestly, a lot of today chicks make impotency appear to be something a smart man might enjoy living with.
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Moonsigns, exactly, his "super-ego" was the root cause of her issues, yes, but it is also the reason why the settlement had to be "undisclosed", too damaging to his little woodle ego, awwwwe. ROTFLOL
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MOONSIGNS: But as far as I'm concerned, he looks like an iguana.


LMao, he does look very reptile like.



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