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Robynmarie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 10:21 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

A journalist friend of mine is writing a story on the "mainstreaming" of sadomasochism in popular music and asked me if black folks find S&M (sexual domination and humiliation) "offensive." Like I can speak for all black folks, right? Anyway, the whole idea makes my stomach turn, but I am from a different generation and listen to mostly R&B.

Is this kind of behavior acceptable these days? Are folks bragging about it in hip hop? White folks have been into S&M for years.
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Jackie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 10:36 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

awwwww...c'mon Robyn, what's wrong with a lil spanking every now and then. LOL !
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Robynmarie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 10:41 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hey Ms. Jackie-
I think she is talking about other than spanking...more like guys who need to be peed on or women who need to be on all fours wearing a studded dog collar to get off. LMAO!!
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Jackie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 10:46 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Yikes !
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Mzuri
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 10:51 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


I don't think that many Black people are into S&M. Being tied up, beaten and urinated on is too reminiscent of slavery times. But that's just what I think about it.


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Robynmarie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 10:55 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Mzuri-
I tend to agree.
But then, I didn't think black folks were into Satanism until I heard Three Six Mafia was/are into some kind of devil worship. I am from the disco era. LOL.
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Jackie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 10:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Yeah we sure don't want our lovers having flash backs of slavery times during sex ! That would be scary ! LOL !
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Robynmarie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 11:03 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Is that what they call "tappin' that ass"? Now I have wanted to slap my man a few times, but never WHIP him. LOL!!!
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Jackie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 11:08 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Slap him in the face or on the ass ? LOL ! or a combo !!
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Cynique
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 11:27 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Black people tend to be very tradional in their sex practices, always wanting to relegate freaky things to white folks. I have always thought I'd make a good domantrix, however. The idea of donning black hip-boots and net stockings, and carrying a whip and wearing a studded dog collar and a skin-tight leather body suit always appealed me. LMAO.
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Robynmarie
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 11:28 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Combo? Sounds good. Long as he DOESN'T EVEN THINK ABOUT RETURNING THE...ummm FAVOR!!! LOLLLL!!!
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Mzuri
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Posted on Monday, January 08, 2007 - 11:50 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


It's confirmed everybody. Cynique is a freak.

Thou shalt now be christened with thy new boardie name: CyFreaque!!!





LOLOL!!!


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Cynique
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Posted on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 12:03 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Me likee. heh-heh.
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Jackie
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Posted on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 12:57 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I know there are some men reading this thread who like to get their a$$es whipped...c'mon....where u at ? LOL !
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Mzuri
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Posted on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 01:03 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)


Everytime I try to tie a brother up, his ass gets all squeamish and he tries to run and hide. Men are such fucking chickens. If they didn't have dicks I wouldn't be bothered with them at all. Useless chicken shit no fun bastards!!!


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Robynmarie
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Posted on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 01:28 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Go ahead, take it like a man. Crybabies!!!!

ROTFLMAO
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Ntfs_encryption
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Posted on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 02:21 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

"I have always thought I'd make a good domantrix, however. The idea of donning black hip-boots and net stockings, and carrying a whip and wearing a studded dog collar and a skin-tight leather body suit always appealed me."

Ms. Cynique the freak??? Yeah!! You go gurl...!!!!!! I love it! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!

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Chrishayden
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Posted on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 02:36 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Lots of black people are into S & M. The slavery thing makes them even more into it--that is lots of them have come down to mix affection and sexual desire with brutal domination and pain.

Sorry.

As for Cynique, I will quote what Shaw said about Nietchze, who said "When ye go to woman, take thy whip" that 99% of women would have got the whip away from him.

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