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Mzuri
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Posted on Monday, November 20, 2006 - 03:27 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ladies - I'm not posting this to gross anyone out or to offend anyone, just want to share something I found out a couple of days ago while surfing the net.

One of the things DL brothers apparently do prior to getting ready for their encounters is to purge their system. So they don't eat for a day prior to and they take an enema.

So, if your man is talking about he ain't hungry - that might be a clue that he's on the downlow.
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Posted on Monday, November 20, 2006 - 04:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You're kdding right ?
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Posted on Monday, November 20, 2006 - 11:40 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I'm dead serious. I believe this to be valid information and instead of keeping it to myself, I thought I'd share. The DL brothers are really out here and we (Black women) need to know what to look for so that we can protect ourselves.
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 08:03 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

LOL
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 01:15 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

That is the biggest load of bull I ever heard--
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 01:27 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Why do you think it's bull Chris? And what do you know about it anyway???
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 01:53 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I am a Holy Man. I must know all things.

By your logicif you tell me YOU are not eating YOU are a brother on the downlow--and you have told us you are a female.

I don't know how you got so old and don't know anything about sex. Everybody--including me up to a few years ago, thinks gay men always have anal sex. I had a talk with some gay men who were frustrated about this and the fact that most anal sex they have had was from so called straight men raping them anally.

Most of them engage in oral sex and mutual masturbation--some don't even go this far, masturbating off pictures of men or other types of sex.

But then again you hail from a state where marriage is between a man and a cow--so I'm not surprised at it.

So you could have a man on the down low and inspect his asshole every night and it would still be nice and tight and he would be sweet as a plum.

By the way, the stork did not bring your children. When I have time, I'll explain about the birds and the bees.
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 04:24 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

CH - Thank you for defending the downlow brothers and describing in detail the sexual habits of the gay man, but my post is directed to any Black women who may not know how to recognize one. You know - in case they would like to protect themselves from contracting the pandemic AIDS virus which we are now more likely to contract than any other classification of people here in the U.S.

For the DL men who prefer to take it up the ass, they purge their systems in advance as I have described above. I shall outline more "signs" as I learn about them.

The tired insults you have cast against me are unwarranted on this occasion and therefore I shall refrain from reciprocating as I would like the focus of this very important thread to remain intact. Thank you for your contribution and have a NICE day!
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 08:07 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

There's many many heterosexual and lesbian couples that engage in anal sex/penetration. Quite more than we may suspect. Gay men don't "own" anal sex. There's nothing new about the so called "down low". The so called "Down low" has racist attributions because it's been applied to brothers only. Another divisive tactic in my opinion. Many men whom are on the so-called down low, is because of religion and their family members. I don't think anyone would "choose" the lifestyle if they could help it.Who would choose to be the target of vicious brutal attacks and jokes from family friends and society ? Food for thought...
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 08:08 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Jackie - If you do not find this information useful, please disregard it. Thanks.
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 08:12 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

LOL ! Yeah but the information you've posted so far is misleading!
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 08:17 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Jackie - This thread is NOT about anal sex, who engages in it, who likes it, the race of those that do, and who condones it. It is entitled "HOW TO SPOT A DOWNLOW BROTHER" and it is intended for the women who may be in a relationship with one. Because there's lots of women who are in relationships with BISEXUAL MEN. If this doesn't apply to you, then it's not for you. And FYI - we (BLACK WOMEN) are in the midst of an AIDS pandemic. Do you think that's misleading too??? Do you think it's a joke???
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 08:27 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ok, point taken with the stats thing, although I think Latinas numbers are higher than black women. But in any event, just because a man doesn't eat for a day ( maybe he's fasting, hell maybe he doesn't like his wife's cooking, or maybe he's having dinner with another woman etc) doesn't mean he's on the down low. And enemas don't automatic indicate a bisexual man and why would he leave evidence around his wife or girlfriend in the first place ? He supposed to be on the down low.
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 08:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

What if they're "down low" brother is a giver and not a receiver ? If you know what I mean...
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 08:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

If ifs and ands were pots and pans the world would be a kitchen. U R putting words into my mouth. Please read and comprehend the original post at the top of the page. Thanks.
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 09:14 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

LOL ! I like that one...the world is a kitchen line. I heard one last night (it could be old but it was new to me) It goes, this is January and February so March your way out of this conversation ! Ok at least I thought it was funny.
Anyyhow You wrote "So, if your man is talking about he ain't hungry - that might be a clue that he's on the downlow."

Then again, for the reasons I stated,it may not be a clue. Looking for clues like that might cause some unecessary trouble in a relationship. The bottom line is trust and communication. I suggest to women that suspect that they're husband/boyfriend is having an affair with a man is to first check out their local LBGT community center and enroll in a workshop about the lifestyle before they go around looking for clues such as the ones stated.
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 09:34 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I said "might" and FYI there are other indicators. That was just the first in my series. I'll post more just as soon as I'm finished arguing with you about indicator number one.
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 09:46 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Girl, I ain't arguing. I just hope that these "down low " brothers (whether they're having sex with a man or woman)are practicing SAFE SEX!
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 10:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Most of these women getting aids are getting it from STRAIGHT men who are whores.
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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 11:11 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Dag, I remeber when keepin it on the "Down Low" meant keeping a secret.

Mzuri, I mean this in all sincerity, becuase I believe you mean well, but please don't believe everything you read on the internet.

Seriously, consider someone who is in a relationship with a man and their man is taking in the rear from another man. Don't you think their suspecions would have been raised with stronger indicators than what you've posted.

Shucks, I've come home late after having drank too much and was not much in the mood to eat the next day -- I thnk the last thing my wife would accuse me of is being on the "down low"...

I even heard somewhere that "you might be gay if; you are over 40 and have a six pack".

I'm sure some of the thug seeking women out there view a man reading a novel as a little sweet.

Mzuri, the best thing a woman can do is force her man to use a condom. At least until they are in committed relatioship (and marriage is not necessarily sufficent to met the commited criterion).

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Posted on Tuesday, November 21, 2006 - 11:44 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Troy - I'm getting this information from a VERY reliable source and I am aware that there are other indicators - I intend to post those over the next couple of days. I think that some of the obvious clues are frequently ignored because many women can't handle the real and prefer to be in denial. Anyway, I shall add more on this subject and as always I welcome your commentaries and critiques :-)
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 11:39 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Thanks Troy for bringing up that "drinking" scenario. I've noticed in myself (and friends when living in Gulfport/Biloxi/New Orleans) that when you drink too much, you often don't eat much. I remember one weekend where a male friend and I only had toast the entire weekend because we were so sick from drinking, and we could barely eat that. And I had another friend who didn't eat much because he was all "coked" up so often. Maybe a guy not eating is more an indicator that he's a junkie or alcoholic than anything else?
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 11:49 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Mzuri:

You wouldn't know a brother on the down low if you tripped over him.

Your mommy did not find you under a cabbage leaf, either. And Jesus did not create the dinosaurs.
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 11:55 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

What Ever CH. At least I have sense enough to know that gay men don't stand around and fondle each other's balls. Smell the coffee numb-nuts!
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 11:56 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Shouldnt somebody actually KNOW about sex before they start trying to give advice to other women about it?

I forgot--you belong to the party of Dr. Bill Frist--the Doctor who performs medical examinations by videotape.

"Dr. Mzuri, I found my man in bed with another man today. He said he wasn't doing anything."

"Is he a Republican?"

"Yes"

"Then Dr. Mzuri sez he be tellin' the truth. Gay men always don't eat before sex so you won't know they doing it."

"Huh?"
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 12:00 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

And I forgot you're the expert on queerness! Now go choke on some turkey gizzards and die - BITCH!
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 12:45 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

At least I'm the expert on something you hapless sex starved old recluse.
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 01:14 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

How to tell your man you man may be a bottom f*g:
Ladies. While you're having sex, slyly stick your finger or thumb dude's a-hole. If he immediately stops, tenses up, pulls away from you while screaming "What the FUHK are you doing, girl???" he PROBABLY has not on the feminine-end of gay sex. But is he sighs, moans and whimper like it's the best experience he's ever had, there's at least a CHANCE dude is taking it up the a$$ from another man.
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 05:34 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You picked the wrong topic to expose, Mzuri. The downlow subject is a very "prick"-ly issue with black men. It puts them on the defensive and stirs feelings of homophobia because they fear being linked to this "aberration". If you wanna make a brotha uncomfortable, start talking about the down-low lifestyle.
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Posted on Wednesday, November 22, 2006 - 06:00 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Yes, I know Ms. Cynique. That's why the thread is addressed to the "LADIES." But if HissyChrissy wants to correct me on the true lovemaking habits of the homosexual male, what can I do? As he said, he's the expert.
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Consider Mr. Federline....how many baby mamas does he have...like 5 or 6 or whatever. And he's under 27. So we know for at least a FEW women he didn't bother even wearing a condom. And those are just the ones people KNOW about due to the proof (the kids). I hardly believe those are the only women he's slept with without a condom. Now all he has to do is sleep with ONE woman who has aids, and he can ruin a lot of women in the future.
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Posted on Friday, November 24, 2006 - 05:01 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Cynique and Mzuri:

You two clowns need to shave your heads, shove 'em together and make somebody's ass!
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I’ve been reading this thread and I must say that everyone has told some truth to one degree or another in their response. And to further a point that Chrishayen made, it is true that not all gay men indulge in anal sex. I too was shocked to learn this because like everyone else, I assumed this was the case. But I do recall when I lived in Japan, I met a guy who was talking about his gay friends and he told me the idea of anal sex was as repulsive to them as it is to heterosexuals. I was taken back this but I then began to think. Years before that, I had a friend I knew who I was stationed with in the Navy and we were going to school together. We were stationed in Great Lakes and he was a home grown Chicago boy. He used to talk about women and getting laid all the time. The guy was a hard core freak and into everything with women. He even introduced to me to many of the women he was hanging out with. I was very young at the time and naturally all of this freaky stuff with women was impressive to me. Anyway, I had not seen him for years until one day his ship, which was home ported out of Hawaii, came to San Diego. We hooked up, went out drinking and reliving old times. He than began telling me about two call girls he met in Hawaii and was hanging out with. He showed me pictures of them and I was stunned! They looked like the centerfold spread girls in Hustler or Playboy.

Well, he went on telling me about an incident that involved the two call girls and a Marine friend of theirs. To make a long story short, they all engaged in sex acts that involved him, the girls and the Marine! I sat speechless with the deer caught in the head lights look as he confessed his first bi-sexual experience. He then revealed to me his relationships with men. I still couldn’t respond but I’m sure he saw the uncomfortable look on my face. The subject of anal sex came up and he had the look of a perplexed puppy shaking it’s head side to side. Even though he had engaged in wild freaky sex with women in threesomes, orgies, was a master of inserting strawberries in women’s private parts and orally retrieving them (that was a specialty he enjoyed), using honey and whip cream over every and any part of their bodies and was now having sex with men, he had never indulged in any anal penetration! What struck me about all of this was despite his hyper sexual proclivities, the idea of anal sex was disgusting to him. His exact words were, “Naw, I don’t get into that. That’s not my thing.” There ya have it.

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Posted on Friday, November 24, 2006 - 05:09 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

NTFS - Thanks for the input but of course he's not going to admit that he let someone stick him in the butt. Please consider that once a man crosses the line of being with another man, he's not going to stop in midstream to set limitations. He kissed him and groped him and sucked him off but his ass is somehow off limits? Does that even make sense? Anyway, again - this thread is NOT about anal sex. It's about recognizing a downlow brother.
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”NTFS - Thanks for the input but of course he's not going to admit that he let someone stick him in the butt. Please consider that once a man crosses the line of being with another man, he's not going to stop in midstream to set limitations. He kissed him and groped him and sucked him off but his ass is somehow off limits? Does that even make sense? Anyway, again - this thread is NOT about anal sex. It's about recognizing a downlow brother.”

Sorry Mzuri, but I believe him. There was no reason for him to lie. He and I were very close and I remember when I was young, how impressed I was with all the women he had. He was always very open about his exploits and adventures. He didn’t have to tell me as much as he did (about the bi-sexual experiences). And as I said, I was stunned speechless when he told me (about his bi-sexuality) given his prior sexual history with women. We were tight friends and I had no reason to question anything he said being that he talked the talk and walked the walk. This I know for a fact.

I have a female Jewish friend who has a lot of gay men friends. In fact, she rented a room out in her home to one a year ago. She and I talked about this very subject before. She told me that some of her gay friends are into booty sex and some are not. That’s just the way it is. Same could be said for some heterosexual people.

But I understand your questioning of this practice because it seems to make sense. Initially, I was taken back when I heard this also (not all gays indulge in anal sex). To you, it may sound like a gay man openly proclaiming he is homosexual yet he is repulsed by the sight of a penis. Makes no sense. But yes, it is true. Every gay man is not necessarily into anal sex. What percentage is or is not would be hard to accurately ascertain I would guess.


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Posted on Friday, November 24, 2006 - 06:13 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Thanks for the follow-up but it doesn't really make me any difference. As a female - I can't even fathom two men making goo-goo eyes with each other let alone having any sort of sexual physical contact. So if I found out that my husband was getting a blowjob but not taking it up the ass, it wouldn't matter to me. He'd be just as faggotty as if he were walking around with flowers in his hair.

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Posted on Friday, November 24, 2006 - 06:16 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Well, Mzuri, ol chrishayden is tired of showing his fat ass, so he's looking for something to replace it. He's so stupid he doesn't realize that his face is a perfect substitute for his flabby butt.
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I have been told that nowadays, "tossing somebody's salad" is now a part of the repetoire of femme fatales because - men love to have their anuses licked. Just a little tidbit discussed over cards at the bridge table.
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Posted on Friday, November 24, 2006 - 06:48 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Just a little tidbit discussed over cards at the bridge table.

Wooo, to be a fly on the wall at Ms. Cynique's bridge parties...LOL!
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Posted on Friday, November 24, 2006 - 06:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Cynique is such a wealth of knowledge and information. All this time I thought tossing salads was swishing both the man's testicles inside your mouth. I didn't know the eating ass technique had a name Thanks for keeping me straight y'all.
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Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 05:24 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

”I have been told that nowadays, "tossing somebody's salad" is now a part of the repetoire of femme fatales because - men love to have their anuses licked.”

Uhhhhhh….sorry Ms. Cinique but I’m going to have to break ranks with you on this one. I have great hygiene but the idea of someone licking my anus does nothing for me –regardless of the gender of the offender! Not my thing and I’ve never heard any of my male friends every mention having an affinity for such a practice either. However, they like a lot of other things (the very things that you probably already know) but analingus is not one of them. I’m not judging nor condemning the practice but I’m personally not into it nor does it interest me.

”All this time I thought tossing salads was swishing both the man's testicles inside your mouth.”

Naw! That’s tea-bagging! Now I have no problems with a woman doing that. In fact, that’s kinda…well…you know, artistically erotic. Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!

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Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 05:31 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Thanks for sharing
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Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 05:59 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I've read the words "tea-bagging" before and always wondered what the hell that is!

Either that's gross or I'm a prude.
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Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 06:03 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Renata,

What if a brotha adds some honey and lemon flavoring? What that make his "tea" taste betta to ya?

HarharHarharHarharHar!!!
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Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 06:12 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Analingus? Hummm. So this practice has a name. Yes, thanks for sharing.
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Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 06:35 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

ABM, you come across as such a perv sometimes!
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Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 06:47 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

The anus is an area of the body highly concentrated with nerve endings and, in men, located conveniently near the prostate gland. Men likely do not discuss the pleasure and/or curiousity they have about sexual acts involving anal stimulation, but it is highly unlikely from a human physiological sense that men who have tried it do not find pleasure in it, aside from the psychological barriers they may have (e.g., it is "dirty," concern that they may pass wind, etc.)

Just wanted to contribute to the conversation. LOL
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Posted on Saturday, November 25, 2006 - 07:45 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Renata,

Thanks for the compliment.

Now, please feel free to have some herbal "tea"...on me. *wink*
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LOL....perv.

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