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     Va_sis Regular Poster Username: Va_sis Post Number: 154 Registered: 02-2004 Rating: N/A |
Here's a little something that I've started on other message boards and I think it would lend itself well here. From time to time, I pick a board member and "interview" them in a non-threatening, non-intrusive way- you know, to give folks better insight into the person. ABM, you have the honor of being the first: 1. How did you come up with your screen name? What does it stand for? 2. What state are you in? 3. What is your profession? 4. Outside of AA literature, what are your hobbies? 5. What are your inspirations in life? 6. What would you say is the most memorable thread to date on this board? 7. What wayward member do you wish would return? 8. Do you have any talents that we don't know about? 9. Fish, steak or pizza? What's your preference on a Friday night? 10. Beer, Cosmopolitan or Jack n Coke? What's your poison on a Friday night? 11. What do you like to do to unwind? | ||
| Ntfs_encryption "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Ntfs_encryption Post Number: 940 Registered: 10-2005 Rating: N/A |
Uh oh! The cost of board celebrity status! Your anonymity is no more! Give up the info bro! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5493 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
Wake me when it's over. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz LOL! | ||
| Va_sis Regular Poster Username: Va_sis Post Number: 155 Registered: 02-2004 Rating: N/A |
Oh, you two don't laugh too soon........... ;) | ||
| Ntfs_encryption "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Ntfs_encryption Post Number: 942 Registered: 10-2005 Rating: N/A |
Uh oh...??????????????????? | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1845 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: N/A |
If he doesn't reply, can we answer for him??? Huh! Huh! Huh!!! | ||
| Chrishayden AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Chrishayden Post Number: 2830 Registered: 03-2004 Rating: N/A |
This is a woman thing, isn't it? Playing Truth or Dare. Wanting us to introduce ourselves. After all, I suppose he is posting here under the name ABM because he doesn't want anyone to know him. What is this female obsession with wanting to KNOW somebody better. How would you know if he lies? What do most people do but lie like a rug whatever the occasion? An enquiring male mind wants to know! | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1847 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: N/A |
Enquiring Male Mind - Besides his profession (if he doesn't want us in his business) what else is there to lie about on the above listed questions? We already know he's in Chicago. You're just jealous that nobody wants to interview you. | ||
| Va_sis Regular Poster Username: Va_sis Post Number: 156 Registered: 02-2004 Rating: N/A |
Thank you, Mzuri. FYI Chris, I subscribe to the belief that some of our members lead VERY interesting lives. And considering some members have been on this board only a few months, while others have been here since the beginning of time, it'll be nice to "know" them a bit more. Many times, members use the interviews for networking opps for hobbies & business. Geez Chris, your panties are showing. | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5498 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
Gee, this is a much better thread than some of those other insipid ones. "To ABM, or to not ABM. That is question." Answer. Who cares? | ||
| Chrishayden AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Chrishayden Post Number: 2832 Registered: 03-2004 Rating: |
You two Windows of Openness are also posting under psuedonyms, I see. Why is that. What is good for the gander is good for the goose. If you want openness, you have to start up first. Go on and post some of your most intimate details up here, or let us ask you questions. We're waiting. But we're not holding our breaths. You're just a pair of busybodies with nothing to do. Get off these computers and get a life. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1849 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: N/A |
You already know one of my most intimate details. I'd rather ride the pole than suck the hole - remember? And I'm in Texas. What else do you need to know about me Chris??? And I have a life, thank you. I post under a boardie nick because that's common practice. It wards off stalkers like you! | ||
| Chrishayden AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Chrishayden Post Number: 2834 Registered: 03-2004 Rating: N/A |
Mzuri: I've been praying and praying over you but it just doesn't seem to be doing any good but I won't quit-- Loose her, Satan! | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 297 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: N/A |
Yo Va_sis that's a pretty nifty idea on the real.  It could help me get to know the board members. | ||
| Va_sis Regular Poster Username: Va_sis Post Number: 157 Registered: 02-2004 Rating: N/A |
Chris, why question something that is considered iCulture Norm? You've taken a friendly & harmless gesture and tainted the hell out of it...such crotchety-ness. And for your information, I HAVE a life, a very rewarding and multi-faceted one. It just so happens when I have downtime during my 9 to 5, I surf the web. Your panties are showing Chris, and they're shit-stained. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1851 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: N/A |
Chris If you're going to pray over me - please pray thusly: Jehovah Jireh, Jehovah Nissi and Jehovah Shalom - In the name of Jesus I ask of you - please bless Mzuri with an abundance of happiness, wealth and abundance. Amen. Thank You!!! And may you be blessed in return. Hallelujah!!! | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 299 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: N/A |
Va_sis I get the feeling that most of us who come here doing the day are well heeled financially most have their own businesses or are successful writers. We can afford to dish. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1852 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: |
Chris - Please make sure you wash your panties and have them smellin like Downie before you pray for me. Okay. Thank You! | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 300 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: |
Not even holy water can quiet down Man-zuri the human Crotch Crab. She's just cat shit on the sidewalk, Chrishayden. We have to step over her. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6621 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
1. How did you come up with your screen name? What does it stand for? Funny. I don’t recall WHY I was inspired to go with the ABM handle, other than, perhaps, I have a slightly sick proclivity for acronyms. ABM – A Black Man. 2. What state are you in? Illinois...Go BEARS!!! 3. What is your profession? I have interests in a few small businesses. And I’m a CPA. 4. Outside of AA literature, what are your hobbies? I write some, not enuff though. Been working on a novel for a couple years. I am awestruck by those who can complete a well-written and engaging novel. I consider such, along with great music and comedy, to be amongst the highest manifestations of human power. Also, an please don't laugh, as of late I've been re-reading old math and science text books. There's a part of me that wants to get a graduate degree and physics. GOD I hope I get over THAT shyt!! 5. What are your inspirations in life? My mother, wife and kids inspire me. My wife’s departed father inspires me. But, honestly, were I FULLY to answer this question honestly, I would probably embarrass myself. 6. What would you say is the most memorable thread to date on this board? WOW!!! You know, there have been so MANY, it’s very DIFFICULT single out just one, or 2 or even a 10 for that matter. Kola and I have had MYRIAD interesting discussions. Far too many for me to fairly recount here. Though I would include amongst some favorites she and I discussing the finer points of her procuring third-party punnany for Thomas. I’m STILL figure out how to do a Jedi Mindtrick on my wife to score THAT kinda deal. Also amongst my very favorites have been some fairly lengthy, in depth exchanges with Yukio. Though things got HILARIOUSLY weird when Yukio admitted to being a man – after a year or more of pretending to be otherwise. The part that scares me about that whole episode is were I not married I might have tried to bone Yukio. EEEWWWWW!!!! Carey discussing his love and appreciation for his dearly departed wife, who were in her own right was a very interesting and beloved presence here. Dat nikka Lambd is a living laughriot. When he and I got together, the shyt reminded of the kinds of fun I had in college. And some unknown person who was alleged to be some famous author started a series of sleazy soap opera threads, one where we could sorta add our own shyt to. They were great fun...Until Yours Truly went into the direction of Troy and I phallically tagteaming Kola. Can you believe that thread just SUDDENLY disappeared? Hahahaha!!! It disappoints me that it seems too much of the discourse here centers on colorism. And even the chickfights – which I otherwise LOVE – are far too frequent and meanspirited for my tastes. I recall there much more diverse topics. (The recent debates about Spike Lee’s movie “When The Levees Broke” were in that vein.) And even when we differed, it seemed to me that such more good-natured. But I’ll concede to possibly being biased. 7. What wayward member do you wish would return? There are a few. Kola's been sparce lately. But you go'on make dat papah, baby. I miss Lambd, Carey, JustWrite, Sisg, LiLi, Linda, etc. It's always fun when bigballah Troy pays his humble subjects a visit. Oh...And it would be nice if THUMPER made an occasional 'guest appearance' on "THUMPER'S Corner"...Hahahahaha!!! 8. Do you have any talents that we don't know about? I’ve been told I have a wonderful ear for music. My high school music teacher lamented his not being able to instruct me at an earlier age. My actress sister-in-law has been at me for years to do voiceover work. And I have been talking with a friend who hosts a radio show about doing some talk radio. I won several dance contests while in college. Was always amongst the fastest of my school age friends. You’re gonna either have to pay to discover some of my ‘other’ talents...or at least get my wife’s pre-approval. *wink* 9. Fish, steak or pizza? What's your preference on a Friday night? I’d PREFER steak…but I’m more inclined to have fish. Hell. It’s either that, or my wife will be stuffing some vegetarian or soy-based shyt into me. 10. Beer, Cosmopolitan or Jack n Coke? What's your poison on a Friday night? Depends on the situation. If I expect to get any lovin’ from my wife, I’ll go the Jack n Coke route. Beer breath doesn’t make for good foreplay with the Missus. 11. What do you like to do to unwind? See 10...Hahahahaha!!! | ||
| Va_sis Regular Poster Username: Va_sis Post Number: 159 Registered: 02-2004 Rating: N/A |
That was a fun & interesting read, A Black Man! Thanks for responding! If you don't mind me prodding further, what do your other businesses entail? *smooches* | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3712 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
haha my KING  And I could kill you for not telling me (in all these years) that you've been writing a NOVEL! Though I've been seriously ill and have not (I repeat) have not posted on this board since Sept. 12th (though as usual any and everyone is accused of being me), I just had to say I truly ADORE you. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6624 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Va_sis, Music publishing. Woman's fitness center. Financial reviews and audits. And a fledgingly holistic skincare & make-up business. Btw: Almost ALL of the people who work with and for me are Black WOMEN. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6625 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Kola, How you doing, Killer? You know I've got nothing by love (and wood) for you too. Well, admittedly, I've been slightly embarrassed about the book. It hasn't come along nearly as well as it should have. It's a wierd thing. I actually see and hear the characterizations and storylines play out in my mind's eye. But when I attempt to put pen to page, everything seems to run dry and flat. | ||
| Ntfs_encryption "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Ntfs_encryption Post Number: 945 Registered: 10-2005 Rating: N/A |
Bro ABM: That was nice -real nice! I can appreciate what you told us. Very interesting and much respect.... | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6627 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Ntfs, Thank you for the props, bruh. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3713 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: |
Hi ABM, I'm going to cry. I had a cancer scare but I don't have cancer! (you have no idea what horror I've been through the past weeks). Additionally, when I had liposuction out of the country (you remember?)--too much fat was removed from my body at one time and caused nervous system illness ("Fat Ephasia"). Then the huge blow up in the press added so much stress and drama that I wasn't prepared for---and along with that came a flurry of very frightening death threats and crazy people saying that they had to kidnap me in order to save me from CIA mind control. My life has been a living hell for the last months. But I have a lot planned coming up (for instance, I'm so nervous for you to hear me sing--thanks Nolan Fane for your big mouth and welcome to the board!--as I know you will be able to tell that I can't really sing! LOL. But anyway, there's a 5,000 year old Egyptian song that I've longed to bring to American blacks. It's called "My Breasts Are Filled With Milk and Honey" and I'm going to make a video singing it live and plaster that video everywhere. I would like that to be in the canon of Kola Boof contributions as the words from our Nilotic mothers 5,000 years ago have great, great meaning. I'm also going to have a facelift. YES. I know we discussed it so many times, but I'm very vain and insecure ABM, and the more famous I become, the more I'm criticized (like all black women are) for not being perfect . White media and black men alike roasted me during the publicity blitz for supposedly not being "pretty enough" for someone like Osama to rape. Women (even black women) consistently join the frey, and it seems that everywhere I go, my "looks" are the constant focus and entry for criticism. But the fact is--I have very beautiful bone structure and was once as striking as any so called "beauty"---but what they're seeing now are the remnants of a house-wife-mother who's had a very hard life. So now I want to recover my beauty. Again...in my television interview on MSNBC, they "darkened" me and shot me from a very unattractive camera angle and my face was HANGING from all the weight I've lost. You weren't able to see how skinny I am now:  Do you see how my face is HANGING off the bone??? Look at my hands. I need a facelift, daddy. When I go on tour and come to Chicago, I expect that you and Desire will be anonymously in the crowd--and I just want to be pretty for you. It will kill me if you don't think I'm pretty. I know it's VERY silly and to some--disgustingly vain--but that's how I feel. Of course, I have to heal from the "Fat Ephasia" brought on by losing 22 pounds during liposuction FIRST. Haha! The boys are doing GREAT!!!! Surely they've been worried about me, but my mother's here and along with their father---much has been kept from them. They realize that I'm a very hated author and that the sudden press coverage (which is always skewed negative because of the White media's distaste for my Africanness) really took a toll on my peace of mind. One thing I am gaining--is enormous support from the Black literary establishment. I had no idea how well read I am amongst the more "scholarly" and "intellectual" black literary writers, and receiving so many accolades from them has been a lifesaver. I do really want to return to the board, but I am still weak and to be blunt--I'm not ready to endure Cynique and Mzuri's accusations and attacks. I need so many types of healing--emotionally, spiritually, physically, intellectually---that I just don't have the strength to fight, and especially over the shallow and unimportant. | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 303 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: N/A |
ABM, I believe I told you before. YOU ARE THE MAN!!!! "G" You so bad you even brought the elusive Miss Kola Boof out of hybernation. Miss Kola Boof--greetings. Let me just rehash from our email that you are a goddess. It was a pleasure to hear you singing at rehearsals and I thought you sounded good. I really liked the songs though I didn't know what the hell you were talking about. LOL!!! I got a copy of your new poetry book and it's slamm'n! The best poetry book I have ever read in my life. I look forward to you returning to the board and I pray that you get well and get some rest. A lot of us are here for you. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1859 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: N/A |
What attacks? I told your silly ass not to get that liposuction in the first place. Like it's anybody else's fault that you're a stupid vain trollop. And no, you haven't pulled the wool over anyone's eyes with all of your childish internet circus animals. So stop soliciting sympathy. You gets none from me. I've been nice to you far too often. Cracker cree-hole mulatto trailer trash wench. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6635 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Kola, I'm happy things are not as serious as they initially appeared. My wife had an experience similar to yours a little while back. So I KNOW how that shyt can start to unravel your entire LIFE. Hey. You know what comes with the territory of being controversally famous. And you've chosen to be such. I hope you and your sons ENJOY your experiences while keeping things in the proper perspective. May GOD take care of and Bless you, Kola. Oh. And regarding the facelift: Whatever you do, stay the HELL away from that quack who did lil' Kim's face. UGH!! | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5502 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
Ooooh, lord. Sheeeee's back. Pictures and ribbons of self-praise and all. Playing the sob sister role, ever the victim. What happened, kola-nut? Did you grow a faint heart. Not. Afraid of Mzuri and Cynique? Yeah, right. If you aren't these trolls we've accused you of being, why would you feel threatened? And actually, I welcome YOU back with open arms if it means all of your conjured-up sycophants will disappear. | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 307 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: |
Hey Man-zuri back the fuck up. Why do you have to ruin Abm's thread like this with your bullshit? I've been here two weeks and all I see in you is a bitter evil Crotch Crab who can't hold a candle to a woman like Kola Boof but you always talking about her left and right. You are the wackest ugliest person I've ever seen in my life and everybody here know what time it is. The troll is your nasty devilish haterade azz. Get some fucking class Wall Rat. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1861 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: N/A |
Really. Why is the bitch trippin over Mzuri and Cynique when she has such a vast "fan base?" And all these fans just think she's so spectacular and can't get enough. And all those book sales. Wouldn't all that supersede a couple of boardies? And why is it always Mzuri and Cynique? Like we're the only people that hate that fake ass Kola? How could she have been so deathly ill but yet she was singing like Diana Ross in the church choir? Man, it's some froot loop motherfuckers around here. Kola bitch, get your circus animals straight please. Thank you. | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5506 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
Wonder why ABM doesn't ask Kola to "cite" all of the professional black literary people who are supporting her. HUH? HUH? | ||
| Chrishayden AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Chrishayden Post Number: 2835 Registered: 03-2004 Rating: N/A |
Mzuri and Va_Sis: Ain't got no panties. How about a couple of funky old jockstraps I ain't washed in about forty years? Y'all can slip 'em over your noses (you might have to let 'em out so they can fit around y'alls big watermillion HAIDS and get down with the Funk! | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 312 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: N/A |
CTFU!!!!!!! Yo Chrishayden!!! **clapping** | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1864 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: N/A |
As if your half-chub-nub ever required a jockstrap. Quit dreamin. | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5508 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
So, is chrishayden gonna be next on the interview list? At least he'll keep his answers short and sweet. Well, maybe not sweet. | ||
| Renata Veteran Poster Username: Renata Post Number: 1506 Registered: 08-2005 Rating: N/A |
Hey, Kola.....hope you feel better. Maybe that Southern California air isn't good, either. Oxygen/air quality has an effect on those recovering from surgery, I've heard. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3714 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
Hi Renata and thanks. Also hello to my girl TONYA--love you "satin" But I really hate that I posted now--because I don't want this thread to become about me. It's about ABM and I hope people will respect that and not get off track here. I just became emotional because he's my friend (and in some ways "mentor"). I trust him and he's a wonderful, brilliant man. Please return the focus to ABM. | ||
| Renata Veteran Poster Username: Renata Post Number: 1509 Registered: 08-2005 Rating: N/A |
No biggie, just saying hi. ABM is cool as hell. Even if he does think admitting someone is good-looking means that some boning is probably going to happen..... And ABM....I saw your post about the "vegetarian or soy-based shyt". What's the deal with men and your fear of all things vegetable/soy? | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6637 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Tis a strangely persistent oDARE that prevails on this website. It's quite a woefully pungent mix of haterade, female cattiness, pseudo-intellectual brinkmanship and dycklessness that might appear funny were it not more than slightly pathetic. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6638 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Renata, I will accept the idea that women can admire the appearance of men without wanting to give them some if you will accept the fact that the very notion of such seems crazy as hell. Deal? Renata: "I saw your post about the "vegetarian or soy-based shyt". What's the deal with men and your fear of all things vegetable/soy?" We skurred that shyt might cause our dycks to stop working. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6639 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Kola, Too late, babe. You will ALWAYS be the center of attention. For I'm but a fading dwarf star within your glittering galaxy of greatness. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1870 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: |
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| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5512 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
I guess people who don't have a sense humor because they are so pompous, might find all of the nonsense that goes on on this board "pathetic," Other people are able to relax their butt cheeks and laugh at it cuz it ain't that serious. | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5513 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
Thanks for proving my point, Mzuri. I love that grif. LMAO. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1872 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: |
Yeah, and perhaps if ABM would back away from the Kola ass  Perhaps that oDARE wouldn't be so friggen prevalent!  | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5515 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
Stop it, Mzuri, before I accomodate renatata and brownbooty and die laughing! | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1874 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: N/A |
It's really not funny. He got his nose up the Kola ass talking about a strangely persistent oDARE. Like he can't see the forest for the got damn trees. Ain't that some shit?!?!? | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5518 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
I swear, Mzuri, I sure like having you ride shotgun with me, cuz you got an arsenal of weapons that won't quit. And of course what you say will be attributed to the tired ol rationale of your being jealous of Kola (Yawn.) | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6640 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: |
Mzuri, What the HELL has happened to you, woman? You used to have some very interesting, provocative, and humorous perspectives to share. But now all you seem to know to do is to fart and piss on everything. Do you have ANYTHING to discuss that does not require your running down other people? Look. I don’t mind playful banter hither and thither. But I’m a man, darling. I will NOT engage in this incessantly venomous spewing that you and others seem to revel in. Please let me know now if this is what you’re going to continue to do. Because I've already resigned myself to ignoring 1 or 2 other foks here. And though I would regret doing so, if it seemed necessary, I will add YOU to that ignoble category. The balls in YOUR court, playah. | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 315 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: |
Man trash her fucking 3 rows of "teef" ass. She live on Kola's clit like a fuck'n dyke and everything she post is to put somebody on Blast. Her evil black ass the only thing that messes up this board. Talk'n bout men suck. Look at her bitter nagging azz. | ||
| Urban_scribe AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Urban_scribe Post Number: 141 Registered: 05-2006 Rating: N/A |
You're quite the man about town, aren't you, Abm? Interesting CV. I'd really love to know more about your holistic skincare and beauty products. Do you have a website? Can you ship to NYC? Do you accept online charges via paypal? | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5520 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
"ignoble", yet. LMAO. The only thing worse than being a venom spewer is being a PEDANTIC name-caller. (Is that "30 days To A More Powerful Vocabulary" paperback still available in stores?? Jeeze.) And I'm wondering, Mzuri, who is the second person ABM ignores? I thought I held that honor alone. humm. Whatever. I think I silenced Tonya, too. Good for me! | ||
| Tonya AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Tonya Post Number: 3386 Registered: 07-2006 Rating: |
Kola sweetie, just a little side note: That picture of you is beautiful, your weight looks spectacular and your face IS NOT -I repeat- NOT.. “hanging off the bone.” I think you are letting what people say about you get to you which is not good. A FACE LIFT???? …whaaa??? Seriously, this is NOT what you need. If I could be completely honest with you for a second, the only improvements you could use to your face are a little concealer to cover the dark circles under your eyes..and a light dusting of Poudre De Bronzage: It's a Sheer Finish Bronzing Powder by Iman...it's FABULOUS. You only need a light dusting. You want to use it...all over...to even out the concealer, and to give yourself a dazzling glow as a bonus! Also…in another picture that I saw of you a long time ago, it looked like you may have had a little bit of a double chin. It doesn't seem like you still have it in the picture above, but if you do, there's a product on the market called "The Facial Muscle Toning Device." It's sold and manufactured in Canada; and it's just a piece of elastic wrapped in plastic that you place around your head (it's round so you just squeeze your head right in it) and then you open & close you mouth for about 3 minutes each day, for each session. It should be done daily for about 2 maybe 3 weeks. Afterwards you'll notice that the tiny bit of fat underneath your chin will be COMPLETELY gone, at which time you can decrease your sessions to once a week or as needed. I don't know if it'll work for people with large double chins--but you only have a tiny one, so for you I'm sure it'll work just fine. And once you've done all this, go to your dermatologist and get yourself a nice facial/spa treatment; then go to your manicurist, get a pedicure & a manicure..let them massage your feet and legs; and then take your behind home, grab a glass of your favorite wine, draw yourself a long hot bubble bath and listen to you some Luther---trust me girl, you'll be fine. P.s., I doubt if you're a good candidate for plastic surgery. I mean, in your situation, it does not seem to be required. You're seriously overreacting, IMO. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3719 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: |
Tonya, I'm not able to find Poudre De Bronzage by IMAN online. Can you tell me exactly what the bottle says. Is it by IMAN or I-IMAN. I found this bronzer: http://www.imanbeauty.com/cheeks/bronzing_powder.htm As for the facelift, I may not have a total facelift as one surgeon I went to see also said that I don't need a facelift yet. But I do want my face back ON. I don't want to look like anybody else, but I want my symmetry back like this:   When your skin is snug tightly to the bone, and you have great cheekbones and features like I do, then you don't need any makeup and you don't have to worry about which camera angles they shoot you from. I want my eyebrow lifted back where it belongs and those are not dark circles under my eyes---they're pocket grooves where the skin is hanging on the cheekbone. I need Blepharoplasty right there. I am a public figure now, constantly being photographed now and will be on television a lot in the future. I get mail and all types of messages from African people saying: "You are representing Africa now and there are very few of us allowed to be seen or heard--you must put on your best face, and especially you Kola, have what it takes to be beautiful." And ONE note even came from IMAN herself. | ||
| Schakspir Veteran Poster Username: Schakspir Post Number: 713 Registered: 12-2005 Rating: |
Yawn. What a massive ego this chick has. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3724 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
And the day you and I meet in person, BITCH, is the day you get to cut it down to size. And we WILL meet in person you weak ass sorry motherfucker. | ||
| Tonya AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Tonya Post Number: 3387 Registered: 07-2006 Rating: |
Yep, Kola, that's it. Poudre De Bronzage Transparente = Sheer Finish Bronzing Powder....You’ll see it on the back of the compact. And FLORI ROBERTS, also listed on that link, has a wonderful line of cosmetics for black women, as well. | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 317 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: N/A |
When Man-zuri the human Crotch Crab going to get brave and answer my dawg Abm's question: http://www.thumperscorner.com/cgi/discus/show.cgi?tpc=179&post=71930#POST71930 Quote Abm Mzuri, What the HELL has happened to you, woman? You used to have some very interesting, provocative, and humorous perspectives to share. But now all you seem to know to do is to fart and piss on everything. Do you have ANYTHING to discuss that does not require your running down other people? Look. I don’t mind playful banter hither and thither. But I’m a man, darling. I will NOT engage in this incessantly venomous spewing that you and others seem to revel in. Please let me know now if this is what you’re going to continue to do. Because I've already resigned myself to ignoring 1 or 2 other foks here. And though I would regret doing so, if it seemed necessary, I will add YOU to that ignoble category. The balls in YOUR court, playah. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1879 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: |
What the HELL has happened to you, woman? You used to have some very interesting, provocative, and humorous perspectives to share. But now all you seem to know to do is to fart and piss on everything. I'm still interesting, provocative, and humorous - it just doesn't seem that way when the comments are targeted against you - someone who obviously takes them to heart. Since I don't know you personally - my comments shouldn't be taken as such. But whatever gets you thru the night, ABM. I don't really give a fuhk! Do you have ANYTHING to discuss that does not require your running down other people? It's amazing that you never ask that question of your girl KolaKunt. After all, she's the one that started this bullshit. Cussing people out for any minor infraction and carrying on with her senseless vulgar abusive rants. But everything's copacetic when she does it, huh? And it's alright with you for her to keep trashing up this forum with all her whack boardie personae too? Right? Unfortunately, I will no longer sit back and let the insults slide. Sorry. Look. I don’t mind playful banter hither and thither. But I’m a man, darling. I will NOT engage in this incessantly venomous spewing that you and others seem to revel in. Then don't. It's just that simple. I don't really give a fuhk! Please let me know now if this is what you’re going to continue to do. Because I've already resigned myself to ignoring 1 or 2 other foks here. And though I would regret doing so, if it seemed necessary, I will add YOU to that ignoble category. The balls in YOUR court, playah. You place entirely too much pompous self-importance upon yourself. But besides the fact that you're incessantly sucking Kola ass, you really don't have a heck of a lot going for yourself. You act as though someone who writes such lame ass-kissing sycophantic vomit-inducing praises as "For I'm but a fading dwarf star within your glittering galaxy of greatness." Is someone with whom I would care to associate with. And as usual, you are sadly mistaken. Typically, when you've decided that you're going to ignore someone, wouldn't you just do that? Why issue some weak ultimatum? Get over yourself. I don't really give a fuhk! | ||
| Ntfs_encryption "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Ntfs_encryption Post Number: 952 Registered: 10-2005 Rating: N/A |
"I'm also going to have a facelift." Uhhhhhh...I'm not following this very well Kola. Why are you having a face lift ? I'm not sure I understand why you are doing this. You mentioned you felt your face was falling off?? Is this from massive weight loss or age? If it's age, it makes no sense because I believe you said you were in your early forties, is that not correct? For a woman of color, especially a black woman, getting a face lift would be extremely unusual. I'm not an expert on this particular subject, but I don't ever recall of a black women having a face lift for reasons of age when she was only in her forties. Am I wrong? If it is weight loss, I don't believe a good doctor would recommend a face lift for that either. Am I wrong again? | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1881 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: |
Kola is mulatto and it looks as though she's going to age like a typical white woman, not a Black one. Unfortunately.  | ||
| Tall_brother Regular Poster Username: Tall_brother Post Number: 74 Registered: 08-2006 Rating: N/A |
Kola fine to me. | ||
| Misty Regular Poster Username: Misty Post Number: 317 Registered: 02-2006 Rating: N/A |
Kola if you want a natural face lift without the surgery they have face massagers that can even out the face and reduce sagging. they also have products that get rid of crows feet and other wrinkles on the face jsut by massaging that area and working the face muscles...they were advertizing this on tv not too long ago. to me that would be better than getting a face lift done by surgery especially when the doctor tells you you dont need one. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3726 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: |
Misty thank you so much. AND MY GIRL TONYA--you know how I love you and trust and listen to you. I think you ladies are right, I don't exactly need a Facelift---but perhaps some nips and tucks. Misty, I don't really have wrinkles or lines...as much as I have LOOSE un-defined edges due to stress, worry, weight loss and natural aging. Because I live increasingly in front of cameras and public crowds---there's enormous pressure to present a certain image. There's also the fact that each time I do a network television interview----they deliberately photograph me and light me unflatteringly. On MSNBC I didn't even look like myself! It's so easy for women who are 5'6 and 5'7 to eshew a certain attitude....but try being 6'2 and the immediate magnet to any room you enter just by virtue of HEIGHT ALONE. Try going to the supermarket looking any kind of way when you're that tall and command attention by virtue of coming down the frozen foods aisle. You will find that it does matter when everyone is constantly sizing you up---and especially if you've USED your looks at some point in your younger life as I did. It's simply impossible for me to not care about how I look in the media in comparison to other women. Since I CAN be beautiful and have been before---it's natural that I would want to be, and it can also be a strategic asset to gaining the ear of YOUNG PEOPLE and the like who need my message on other issues. In other words---"beauty" can make you IN and give you clout. I think that's horrible, but it's the way it is. And I could exploit that. NTFS, for the record....several famous black women in my age group have ALL had Facelifts. Janet Jackson Whitney Houston Vanessa Williams Vivica Fox Angela Bassett Iman (well she's way older, but still) Michael Jackson Prince I'm amazed that black folks still haven't picked up on how to SPOT a facelift. It's not that they looked 40. It's that in Hollywood, every woman endeavors to look 21 forever. And black women who are in the media get facelifts MAINLY to stay 20 looking. THIS IS HOW I LOOK RIGHT NOW WITH NO WORK TO MY FACE:  Now just imagine with nips and tucks how I could be revitalized. And I DO NOT regret the liposuction at all. Sure--I got sick because they took too much fat at one time. But that was my fault, and I'm still really LOVING my new slimness and having a tiny waist again. The bad thing is that my breasts have FALLEN. They've also enlarged from a 38 C to 40 double D. But they're hanging. POOR ABM. We've just taken over his thread. Not that he'll care, but still... | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3727 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: |
My point is---I have a LOT of reasons to want to look 27 again. My professional ambitions... And I mean, I do plan to start having a love life again WITHOUT Tom-Trojan. I keep telling people---just because I'm from Africa doesn't mean I'm an "earth mother". No, I'm a soldier and a competitor. I believe that being beautiful could help me get POWER. | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1885 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: |
It's that in Hollywood, every woman endeavors to look 21 forever. Do you mean this literally or figuratively? If literally - does this mean that you are now the spokeswoman for all the other women in Hollywood? And do you think you're in "Hollywood?" Because you're not. Why not aspire to look like a 12-year-old. That makes about as much sense, doesn't it? You really are brainwashed and you should try to come back to reality posthaste. This sort of mentality can be harmful to others. And as an activist who stands for Black empowerment (or whatever your trip is), you should also fight against sexism and ageism - but I suppose that concept is too complex for you to comprehend. And I mean, I do plan to start having a love life again WITHOUT Tom-Trojan. Thanks for confirming what we already know - that you do not have a LIFE!!! Which is why you continue to trash this forum with your KolaKlones. I believe that being beautiful could help me get POWER. Kola Spoof. Real POWER is achieved thru brains. And real beauty starts from within. Outer beauty should be maintained - not regained - and sadly, it's evident that you have let yourself go in a major way. In any case, it's too late for you. Just accept the fact that you're fugly and work with what you have. | ||
| Moonsigns Veteran Poster Username: Moonsigns Post Number: 1550 Registered: 07-2004 Rating: N/A |
Abm, It was interesting to read a bit more about you! | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6648 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Tonya, Sounds like you REALLY know your beauty regimen. I think you and Moonsigns should tawk. Kola and I have debated the merits of her getting plastic surgery ad nauseum. But I empathize with what she says about how unapologetically SHALLOW the media and entertainment worlds can be. The imagery of female celebrity has been so doctored up that those few women who do NOT get any work done can appear old and haggard by comparison. So I've pretty much resigned to hoping that after Kola get's shellacked and simonized that I can still frickin' RECOGNIZE her. Urban_scribe, I really appreciate your interests in what we’re doing. But to avoid embarrassing myself I’m going to have to ask you to wait until my wife and I have things on firm, settle grounding. As soon as things are where we think they should be, I surely will provide some contact info for you and anyone else who’s interested. Nolanfane, I agree with Mzuri where she says I should have ignored her. And that is what I’ll do. Moonsigns, Glad you found my (fairly mundane) life to be interesting. Next time I’m clipping my toe nails, I’ll post a pic of the shavings here for you to marvel at. K? Seriously...Thanks! Kola, Kola: "POOR ABM. We've just taken over his thread." Hahahahaha!!! Chile. Why would I care about that? Especially since I am intrigued by your discussion with Tonya’s and Misty’s beauty tips and maintenance. But GOD’s gone git you for taddling on Angela Bassett having had plastic surgery. I mean, logically, I about KNOW she has some done, even without your telling it. But still...dats my baby! | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3729 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
ABM, HAha!!! Your wit is like twighlight before a rainbow, King. I will look exactly like Kola Boof----only rested and younger. Trust when I say that I only want to exploit any and everything that will empower and make "marketable" my very confrontational and controvertial brand of "ART". I have something very painful and political to say to the world....and as Gloria Steinem said circa 1971. It didn't hurt that she looked like a Playboy Bunny (and in fact, started out as one). I can't imagine why anyone here wouldn't think TRUTHFULLY about what I'm saying. No one can claim that Kola Boof is a bitter old dyke because she can't a get a man---and no one has been able to silence my feminism with such. And I have far more enemies than most. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6650 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: |
Kola, I agree that looking a certain way can help you A LOT with what you're trying. But be careful that you don't become so consumed by your appearance that you lose sight of what you're REALLY all about. Sure it seems right now that that could never happen. But celebrity and fame can be be all-consuming. And it seems as though getting plastic surgery can become somewhat addictive. Instead of simply living with your quirks, it becomes easier and easier to pick yourself a part. Bit by bit. Until there's very LITTLE of the real you left. GOD I'm so glad I am a man. | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 327 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: N/A |
Damn Abm. You just brings that WIZZZZZ-DOM, man. SMH | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3732 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
ABM, I think about what you're saying every minute. Trust me. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6653 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
It's amazing what has been done to the perception of the human esthetic. I mean. We KNOW all the chicks (and probably at least half) in Hollywood has had some face and body work done. And we even make fun of it. YET...we'd still prefer a woman look like she's constantly walking through a wind tunnel than we would to see her with her own natural, GOD-given smile lines and crowfeet. We'd KNOW chick's got liquid plastic in those 38D boobies. Yet we'd still prefer that to her natural, less perky 34B. It kinda makes you wonder what the frock we will look like...and have surgically attached to our bodies...a couple generations from now. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3736 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
All true ABM. Except my 40 double D's are full of FAT TISSUE and no liquid plastic. I would love it except that my waist is now "surgically" unrealistic and my ass (though very nice) is out of proportion with the big tits. SO....hate to tell you this (laughing) But I may need surgery. HA HA!!!!! Yep--a breast lift and "tissue removal" to get them back to 38 C (which is the size in most of the photos you've seen). Then again, I might leave them hanging and just use BRA tricks...but the problem with a bra is that it pulls them up so high, they look even bigger---and now that I'm a size 4----it can really be hard (impossible) to look in proportion. In other words, GOD intended for me to get fat after 40. But at 6'2 it's very uncomfortable being STOCKY (as I was) and overly volumptuous. I just have more energy and self-confidence when I'm thin. And my "face" is ON. LOOOOOOOOOOL. Daddy, I used to LOVE talking to you about this. And Nolan Fane---I only call ABM "daddy" on this board, so don't ask. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3737 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: |
Correction. I used to be 6'3 (at 17) then 6'2 (at late 30's). Now I'm 6'1 and 1/2. WHAT IS HAPPENING!???? | ||
| Mzuri "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Mzuri Post Number: 1893 Registered: 01-2006 Rating: |
Gawd you're a MORON. You shrink as you age. It's normal - stupid. Because your bone mass decreases. Get a G.E.D. or something so that you won't be such a dimwitted imbicile!!! Fucktarded high school dropout!!! | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6656 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Kola, I'm a little confuse. Is your tits now too big for your a$$? And if that's the case, are you going to have some a$$ enhancement work done? I enjoy talking with you about this stuff too. It helps to me realize how in some ways it's much easier to be a man. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3738 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
Yeah, ABM my breasts are too big and I have that look WHITE WOMEN are notorious for when they've got "fake silicone" breasts and a flat pancake ass---only my ass isn't flat, it's about EXACTLY like the photo a certain Tazmanian Monster keeps posting--but with the HUGE knockers it looks out of proportion and I've always hated that Pam Anderson, Anna Nicole look where you see them from the backside and wince. | ||
| Ntfs_encryption "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Ntfs_encryption Post Number: 958 Registered: 10-2005 Rating: N/A |
NTFS, for the record....several famous black women in my age group have ALL had Facelifts. Janet Jackson Whitney Houston Vanessa Williams Vivica Fox Angela Bassett Iman (well she's way older, but still) Wow! Thanks for the info. I knew nothing about this. But then again I really don’t follow nor have any interest in what so-called celebrities or Hollywood stars do in their personal lives. I must say I’m surprised to learn of this. Not that it matters because I feel a person has the right to do what they want in order to feel better about themselves. Michael Jackson Prince Everyone knows about the numerous failed surgeries that have reduced Michael Jackson’s face to that of a Jason minus the hockey mask. But I didn’t know about Prince. Again, thanks for the info. | ||
| Renata Veteran Poster Username: Renata Post Number: 1522 Registered: 08-2005 Rating: N/A |
I didn't know about Angela, Prince , and Vivica.... I'm still somewhat dubious....because Angela looks really natural....Vivica looks natural (surgical-wise, anyways) with just too much makeup. Well, now I know. I'm out for real, now....gotta pack and get to the airport. | ||
| Nolanfane Regular Poster Username: Nolanfane Post Number: 337 Registered: 09-2006 Rating: |
You got to be kidding about Vivica. That chick is totally surgical looking. Fake titties, fake legs, face twisted every which way. She look good though. | ||
| Yvettep Veteran Poster Username: Yvettep Post Number: 1355 Registered: 01-2005 Rating: N/A |
Welcome back, Kola! I do not unilaterally oppose plastic surgery. I know you will be very careful about your choices though. I'd have to ask my husband, but I do not think there is a professional organization made up of African American plastic surgeons. I did find this doctor who I think is in your area when I did a quick googlesearch to find out for sure: Dr. Pearlman Hicks-- http://www.face-doctor.com/black_plastic_surgeon.html (A buddy of my husband's has a booming practice in the D.C. area if you're interested in travelling!) You can, though, contact the association of Black MD's, National Medical Association http://www.nmanet.org/ to get referrals. It is not that I think you should automatically go with a Black surgeon. But I do think Black surgeons would be more likely to be sensitive to giving you features that are culturally consonant and also to be better versed in issues such as keloids that are a particular danger in Black folks. | ||
| Yvettep Veteran Poster Username: Yvettep Post Number: 1356 Registered: 01-2005 Rating: N/A |
And ABM, VERY interesting answers. Such a renaissance man! | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6665 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Yvettep, You make an EXCELLENT point about Kola considering utilizing the services of a BLACK plastic surgeon. And thanks for the compliments. Answering those questions was for me kinda weird...but FUN. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3748 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
Hi Yvette, thank you. When you get a face lift--they don't give you "Features". NOTHING about my face or how I look is going to be changed. If you look at Angela Bassett, Whitney Houston, Vanessa Williams or Iman--they still look exactly like themselves. The facial skin and muscles under the skin are un-attached surgically and then re-attached in the positions they were before aging loosened them. I probably will not have an entire facelift---but like Halle Berry will just have nips and tucks (things tightened back up). It amazes me how Black people really believe that Black celebrities older than 35 just look 22 naturally...forever. It's not natural and it's not "good genes"--that's bullshit. Everybody from Halle to Diahann Carroll to Diana Ross to Natalie Cole have nips and tucks or more invasive procedures as they age---to retain a LOOK that the public is familiar with. In my case...I have no wrinkles (very gorgeous skin) so people don't see what I'm complaining about. But I do have a hanging "brow", deep grooves under the eyes where there should be fatty tissue, the connective muscle attachment under the eyes is hanging so that the cheekbone skin under the eye is hanging. Excess flesh around the entire face takes away from my symmetry and mutes my features---there is a lack of definition in my features (which is normal at 38-40), but now that I'm required to be on t.v. for the first time in my life, I don't like not having my face ON--especially when every other woman has her face done. I am also very tall and East African, so I have an elongated face and when it hangs, it can give me a masculine pall that I don't like (at least it looks masculine to westerners, who despise black women's faces in general). My neck is also undefined. I won't be going to a black plastic surgeon. I've seen the very best work done on black skin by KOREAN doctors. The Asians in general can make you look as though a scalpel never touched you--their work is breathtakingly natural! NO ONE takes plastic surgery as seriously as they do. | ||
| Ntfs_encryption "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Ntfs_encryption Post Number: 972 Registered: 10-2005 Rating: N/A |
"......better versed in issues such as keloids that are a particular danger in Black folks." Excellent point. In fact, that (keloids) is the major reason blacks should be very careful about facial surgery. It's one thing to get a keloid on your hands, back, chest, stomach, etc. But it's a total different ball game when you get them in your face. I'm very curious about blacks, facial surgery and keloids. Info or personal experiences anyone....? | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3750 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
My skin doesn't Keloid so it's not an issue for me---and let us not forget that only about 5% of Blacks Keloid. That's HIGH compared to other groups, but it's not a general thing with black people folks. | ||
| Cynique "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Cynique Post Number: 5554 Registered: 01-2004 Rating: N/A |
Keloids can be very vexing when it comes to ear piercing, NTFS. I have seen women with huge knots on their earlobes due to how keloids became a factor in the healing of the holes. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6669 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Kola, The Pam Andersen look might really work for White guys. But us brothas really need to be able to see and grab some A$$. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3752 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
And for myself ABM...I just don't like the European look of big tits and flat ass. My ass is NOWAYS flat, but with the huge knockers in a bra, the proportion makes it look that way. If I get a breast lift have the excess fat removed from my tits, then I will look proportioned again. But alas....it's more surgery to fight the effects of age. I already had the fat around my waistline removed. I guess I shouldn't talk so openly about it. I see Americans hate you when you talk about anything out in the open. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6674 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Kola, I read that the biggest increases of those who receive elective surgery are Black women (and men). Ain't no reason for you to be ashamed of talking about this, babe. | ||
| Tonya AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Tonya Post Number: 3410 Registered: 07-2006 Rating: N/A |
"Kola, The Pam Andersen look might really work for White guys. But us brothas really need to be able to see and grab some A$$." Hey Abm! Not cool, okay?!? | ||
| Tonya AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Tonya Post Number: 3411 Registered: 07-2006 Rating: N/A |
"And for myself ABM...I just don't like the European look of big tits and flat ass." Not cool either, Kola!! | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6683 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Tonya, What's your beef? You've got a Pam Andersen build? Or you don't like the notion of a brotha admiring and grabbing some fione Black tail? | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6684 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Kola: "And for myself ABM...I just don't like the European look of big tits and flat ass." When I see that I can't help thinking that she would look GREAT if she could shift some of the volume of her tits to her a$$. | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3758 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: N/A |
TONYA I'm so sorry. I totally forgot we're describing your look. But I'm prejudiced so I'm certain I would LOVE how you look, no matter what you look like. You are SO MY IDOL Tonya and don't know. | ||
| Tonya AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Tonya Post Number: 3412 Registered: 07-2006 Rating: N/A |
Abm, I plead the fifth to the first and no I don't have a problem with brothas big upping fione Black women. You don't have to put other ones down when you do it; that's all. And, btw, some brothas do like them some big breasted slim booty women. Now! | ||
| Tonya AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Tonya Post Number: 3413 Registered: 07-2006 Rating: N/A |
Thanks Kola. I don't believe for one minute that you'd do it on purpose. | ||
| Abm "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Abm Post Number: 6687 Registered: 04-2004 Rating: N/A |
Tonya, Oh...Uh...Hmmmmm? Well, see. It really was KOLA who started this. I was mostly jes trynah roll with her. *cheezin'* | ||
| Tonya AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Tonya Post Number: 3414 Registered: 07-2006 Rating: N/A |
Yeah right! LOL | ||
| Ntfs_encryption "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Ntfs_encryption Post Number: 974 Registered: 10-2005 Rating: |
"My skin doesn't Keloid so it's not an issue for me......" Then you are truly blessed! "---and let us not forget that only about 5% of Blacks Keloid. That's HIGH compared to other groups, but it's not a general thing with black people folks." Are you sure about that? Only 5% of blacks have the keloid gene? I can't refute that because I have no data or info to do so but if that is true, it is much, much smaller than I believed. I thought it was a much larger percentage. I know I have the keloid gene. I have keloids from injuries I got from playing football, from getting cut when I was young and I have two nasty scars on both my knees from serious knee surgery when I was in the military. I guess I'm in that unfortunate 5%. "Keloids can be very vexing when it comes to ear piercing, NTFS. I have seen women with huge knots on their earlobes due to how keloids became a factor in the healing of the holes." Ya got that right! I have seen this many times before. That is why I was never interested in getting my ears pierced. But then again, I'm not into jewelry and such. I wear no rings and have no bling bling to sport. I have one gold chain that my mom gave my for Christmas. That is the only jewelry I have. No Mr. T here! | ||
| Kola_boof AALBC .com Platinum Poster Username: Kola_boof Post Number: 3763 Registered: 02-2005 Rating: |
Ntfs, why are you talking to me? I thought you despised me and everything I stood for along with your friends? I recall quite a few posts where you sat in agreement with them----on negative things about me. I don't see why you would bother to speak since you have so little respect for me. | ||
| Ntfs_encryption "Cyniquian" Level Poster Username: Ntfs_encryption Post Number: 978 Registered: 10-2005 Rating: N/A |
”Ntfs, why are you talking to me?” Because you posted on an open forum…..? ”I thought you despised me and everything I stood for along with your friends? ” Kola, I don’t despise you or anyone else on this board. There are a few posters who I greatly disagree with but I don’t subscribe to hatred. It’s too expensive and counter productive my dear. ”I recall quite a few posts where you sat in agreement with them----on negative things about me. ” Uhhhhhhhh…..I don’t think so. You have made numerous comments that I totally disagree with but I have never out right attacked you nor have I personally ever called you any names. If you have noticed, when you engage in your ongoing knife fights and brawls with some members, I stay clear of those scuffles. With all the continuous calling you ugly names, questioning you as a spoofer with multiple alias, mocking your looks, calling you a liar, etc, etc…, I have never personally contributed to any of that. ”I don't see why you would bother to speak since you have so little respect for me. ” I don’t recall ever disrespecting you. Perhaps you can refresh my memory with a post where I criticized, instigated, mocked or called you vicious names. Once again, if you have noticed, every time you have commented about the problems and difficulties of single black mothers, I WAS THERE TO BACK YOU UP AND OPENLY SUPPORT THE VALDITY OF YOUR COMMENTARY –EVERY TIME! I know you have many detractors after you, but I have not been part of the lynch mob. Sorry. |
