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Brownbeauty123
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 12:39 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Let's try to identify the problem between Black men & women on this forum (or in this country) and discuss exactly what is it, that has us at war with each other.

What can Black women do to become less bitter?

If Black women were to work on their resentment and anger towards Black men, would you consider dating us more often (that's if you don't)?

What can Black men do to become less "self hating"?



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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 12:55 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You are very sweet to try to call a truce. I think the black women's "bitterness" is because of black men chasing after white women and disrespecting black women. So it is a vicious circle. The black men diss black women and treat white women like they are a higher prize. The black women get bitter. The black men then complain that black women are too bitter and start idealizing white women even more.

On the whole, black women are incredible and loyal being. So many of them so want a black man that they don't date at all rather than date a man who is not black. Do the black men at least appreciate the loyalty? No! They jeer and claim that the reason those loyal black women don't date outside the race is because non-black men dont' want them. They actually refuse to believe that men of any other race would want black women. They are so disrespectful to their mamas. I think the solution for those black women who would like a black man is to go for African and Caribbean men. Haitian men, Senegalese men, Ghanaian men, Jamaican men: they all seem able to enjoy being with black women and don't seem to have that strange drive to put black women down. Plus those men are fine :-)
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 01:41 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

brownbeauty, you're premise is a flawed one.

black men and women are NOT at war with each other.

when you say "black men and women", who are you speaking of? the black men and women in jamiaca, the virgin islands, equador, columbia, cuba, the dominican republic, haiti, brazil, the bahamahas, barbados, etc?
or just the "black men and women" in the united states? what about the black men and women who are children of foriegn born parents/ are they at war with each other?
black men and women in the us are not at war with each other. what you have are a handful of black men and women who have personal issues that translate in to them "thinking" that black men and women are somehow at "war" with each other. this is just not the case.
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 10:17 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

BB: are you talking about the gender war between Black men and black women or do you mean what's currently going down on this board?--because it's not a gender war; like always, it's a race/color war. Schakspir and Nfts are mixed and high yellow blacks, as are all of the women who've been commenting on their behalf. The racist photos and references to racist caricatures that are starting that are to reappear (and championed by the usual suspects) are being posted by light-skinned blacks. A discussion about the gender wars is fine. But please don’t go on mixing one with what’s happening on this board. A gender war between black men and black women..requires black men and black women.
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 10:22 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Oops! "The racist photos and references to racist caricatures that are starting to reappear (and championed by the usual suspects)..."
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 10:37 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

BB: are you talking about the gender war between Black men and black women or do you mean what's currently going down on this board?--because it's not a gender war; like always, it's a race/color war. Schakspir and Nfts are mixed and high yellow blacks, as are all of the women who've been commenting on their behalf. THE RACIST PHOTOS AND REFERENCES TO RACIST CARICATURES THAT ARE STARTING TO REAPPEAR (AND CHAMPIONED BY THE USUAL SUSPECTS) ARE BEING POSTED BY LIGHT-SKINNED BLACKS. A discussion about the gender wars is fine. But please don’t mix one with what’s happening on this board. A GENDER WAR BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN..REQUIRES BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN.
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 10:55 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

THE ONLY BROTHAS THAT SHOULD BE COMMENTING ON A GENDER WAR ARE ABM AND GRIND. THE REST OF THOSE NIGGERS ARE MONGRELS.
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 12:57 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

”BB: are you talking about the gender war between Black men and black women or do you mean what's currently going down on this board?--because it's not a gender war; like always, it's a race/color war.”

No it’s not. The skin color war exists only in your mind! Since you suffer from deep psychic wounds because of your intense sense of inferiority that is linked to your failure with black men, you have attributed it to black men being brainwashed because they do not desire whiny, insecure, paranoid, toxic clowns like yourself and your delusional black female Amazon wannabe cohorts. Rather than focus on the real issues that negatively affect relationships between black men and women, you have concentrated your ignominious and divisive rants to drive a wedge between blacks based on the color of their skin. Just because you feel shame and self hatred because of your inability to accept your own skin, you wildly lash out and blame other blacks for your psychological discomfort and insecurities. The pictures of women you detest are all attractive and would be desired and sought after by men of any race or ethnicity. Knowing this enrages you since you know black men (or any other race of men) would not respond nor desire you as they do those women you loath for no other reason than having a different color of skin than you. You are so transparent and obvious with your pathological skin color driven fanaticism and hate. Your contrived attacks are hollow and without substance. Nothing less than seething hate and vitriol generated by your own deep feelings of inferiority and ugliness.


”Schakspir and Nfts are mixed and high yellow blacks, as are all of the women who've been commenting on their behalf.”

Thank you for the comment. You have just made my point. This is a perfect example of your skin color psychosis. My skin color is irrelevant to the discussion. But you are making it a talking point. Why? There is no fixed and identifiable mind set that is directly tied to ones skin color. Everyone’s beliefs and ideologies are the result of their personal life experiences and environment. NOT THE COLOR OF THEIR SKIN!

”The racist photos and references to racist caricatures that are starting that are to reappear (and championed by the usual suspects) are being posted by light-skinned blacks.”

There you go again. What racist photos and racist caricatures??? What are you talking about? The demons in your head are worse than I originally thought. Your obsession with skin color is something to be pitied. The pain and bitterness you suffer must be excruciating. Your wild attacks and accusations say more about you than the people you bitterly criticize. It is you who is stewing and fermenting in a morass of anger and racism. Deal with your own personal conflicts and stop projecting the demons in your head onto other people! We have nothing to do with your grossly warped sense of reality and skin color insecurities.

”A discussion about the gender wars is fine. But please don’t go on mixing one with what’s happening on this board. A gender war between black men and black women..requires black men and black women.”

I thought so too. But you are the one who desires classifications of blacks based on their complexions. Not me. You want blacks separated into various warring factions and tribes based on skin color! Not me! As if blacks are not fragmented enough, you want further divisions and schisms. The problems blacks face are not enough for you –you want more chaos and in fighting. You are a very sick and weak woman.

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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 01:31 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You don't give a shit about black men (except the ones you're fucking). You hate them just as much as you hate black women, ya snot-colored bastard. You're just using this as an opportunity to kick the racist rhetoric that you and your punk ass crew come here to do more than anything else--but wouldn’t have had the guts to pull had the black man’s attention not been diverted--had he not been busy arguing with the black women. You Creole macaccas ain't even slick. It only works on the nigga black man. Cracka Creole Bitches.

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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 01:53 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ntfs, when have you come to this board to discuss ANYTHING except you hatred for black women and black men. When? Pull a thread. I'll pull sixteen to match your one...faggot.
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 02:54 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Tonya, good for you. You told that self-hating fuckup WHAT TIME IT IS.

Ntf: know that we are all laughing at you. The subject matter at hand (why sellout black male clowns have their tongue up white men's anuses) may not be funny, but "brother" you sure are funny. Now that Tonya has revealed that you are actually not black and are in fact a half-caste or other mixed mongrel: please please please confirm for us that you were actually born from a WHITE woman. If so, that explains EVERYTHING.
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 02:55 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Dark skint brother here. :-)


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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 03:39 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

”You don't give a shit about black men (except the ones you're fucking). You hate them just as much as you hate black women, ya snot-colored bastard. You're just using this as an opportunity to kick the racist rhetoric that you and your punk ass crew come here to do more than anything else--but wouldn’t……………………”

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! You make this so easy for me Tonya. Every time you post something it never changes –never varies. It’s the same weak, tired, whining and bitching. Your pathetic victimization bleating is like a broken record. For some strange and bizarre reason, you want to fancy yourself as a victim of black male abuse and denigration. Yet it is you, along with your foul mouthed angry ghetto tramp cousin, Shemikkka and the recent addition to your “We Hate Black Men” fan club, bush monkey girl (aka Igbogirl), who have flooded this board with bogus accusations and groundless victimization claims. As of recently, every post is the same! Nothing is different! Just your never ending pathetic vociferous temper tantrums and whining: Rant…rant…I hate black men…black men ain’t shit….rant..rant…whine..nikka…I hate….black women are abused…rant..rant..nigger….nigger…rant…yellow niggers…punk ass…light skin…rant…rant…wah…wah…wah…rant…..nikka…wah…fuck black men…rant… IT'S BORING AND TIRED! NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR IT!!!

Let me set the record straight once and for all and I’m speaking for the majority of black men who frequent and contribute to this board: WE LOVE BLACK WOMEN AND RECOGNIZE THEIR RESILENCE AND THE STRUGGLES THEY HAVE HISTORICALLY FACED AND CONTINUE TO ENCOUNTER. WE RESPECT AND LOVE THEM AS OUR MOTHERS, MOTHERS OF OUR CHILDREN, LOVERS AND OUR FRIENDS. WE ADMIRE THEIR AMBITION, FORTITUDE AND THEIR PROFESSIONAL ACHIEVEMENTS. WE APPRECIATE THEIR BEAUTY AND WE LOVE THEIR SPICY PERSONALITIES, WIT, HUMOR AND THE STRENGHT OF THEIR CHARACTER. Ya got that??

What we do not like (and thank God you and your cabal of psychotic race haters are a very small minority) are: FOUL MOUTHED SELF LOATHING, MISERABLE, RACIST, INGNORANT, DISRESPECTFUL, SELF PITTING, VICTIMIZATION CRAZED, WEAK ASS, WHINNERS AND HATERS LIKE YOU AND YOUR TWISTED CREW OF MINIONS.

No one cares nor takes seriously your skin color rants and disingenuous accusations. NO ONE! You use your sick jealously and resentment of women whom have lighter skin and longer hair than you as a platform for to launch your mindless attacks. And your obsession with the fact that black men do not want anything to do with your toxic victimization whining and belly aching, as a reason to retaliate with false accusations and childish name calling.

Your continuous and uncontrollable use of the “N” world speaks very clearly of your deep rooted psychosis of subconscious self hatred and the vestiges of a plantation mentality. No other race or ethnicity refers to other members of the same group with racist epitaphs that were originally created to strip them of their humanity. In your blind rage to insult and hurt, you gleefully use a term that was used to oppress and degrade your race. As I stated before, you have reduced yourself to white racists in black face and drag. Happily referring to other blacks as “niggers”. A racist term that attempts to define your people as inferior and unworthy. Yet you relish the word. What a sad and pathetic fool you and your clown supporters are.

Bottom line is this: Of all the females in the world, you and your insecure, jealous, racist, rabid tramps are at the bottom of the list. Black men do want you and have no use for your insecurities and misguided rage. You’re angry because black men pass you over and have no desire for your confrontational venom and whining. You know this. THAT IS WHY YOU CONTINUALLY HARANGUE BLACK MEN AND CALL THEM NAMES –THEY DON’T WANT YOUR KIND! Ya got that!

”Ntfs, when have you come to this board to discuss ANYTHING except you hatred for black women and black men. When?”

Tell ya what. Since you claim I hate black women and call the names, POST ONE THREAD WHERE I CALLED BLACK WOMEN “NIGGERS” OR BITCHES OR ATTACKED THEM WITH HATEFUL LANGUAGE OR PROFANITY (LIKE THE KIND YOU USE AGAINST BLACK MEN) ! LIST ONE THREAD WHERE I ATTACKED BLACK MEN AND DENIGRATED THEM AS A RACE!

Talk the talk..walk the walk. It’s time to put up or shut up Tonya. I JUST CALLED YOU OUT! And don’t resort to your predictable chicken shit stonewalling and evasiveness. You made the accusations, now back up your delusional raving! I’m waiting………………….

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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 03:45 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Nt-fucks-mans-ass:No you did not call Tonya out you vomit colored piece of black trash. And you are a compulsive fucking liar you sellout cunt. You have called black women names on this board left and right. You have stated clearly that black women are ugly. Now take the white man's cock out of your rectum and stand up like a fucking man, you worthless piece of shit. You have laughed at Africa and said vile things about that continent. You are too stupid to realize that you have African blood and that to Americans you are as black as Alek Wek, they don't distinguish - one drop and you're black. You fucking vermin. You're a disgrace to our race!!
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 03:47 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Remember what those white men did to Abner Louima? They raped him anally using a broom handle. I wouldn't be surprised if BLACK men pull that stunt on you because they are so embarrassed to be of the same race as you. Please please please breed up with white women so that gradually your offspring will become white and not dirty up the black race. PORCH MONKEY
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 04:19 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I'm exploring a related issue ie black men's attitudes to black women on my blog. I'm still unsure on a couple of points (I'm not African American):

• How bad is the situation? ie what is the proportion of black men who prefer white/ white looking/ light black women.

• Also, are black women generally more “loyal” to black men than the other way round or is this just a myth?

http://racialrealist.wordpress.com/
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 05:13 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Ntfs,

you loath black men as much as you do black women; you don't have to cuss to say it; you've gotten that point across plenty of times. The only reason why you don't express it as much as you do your hatred for black women...is because you're a pussy--you KNOW a black man would hand you your girly (custard colored) ass on a platter. LOL!! Tell me. Why don't you have more discussions with the men on this board? Why are 99.999% of your posts your cat fighting with and debasing (black) women? I think those are the more interesting questions. If you have so much contempt for the women on this board ...why are you always bothering them. That's not normal for a straight man....Not even one who's an aging Nazi. The only men who spend this much time arguing with women they claim to hate--and consider “bottom feeders”--are “Fags” …the ones who prefer feeding from “the bottom.”

...(Interesting indeed.)


Racialrealist, love the blog. :-)
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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 06:53 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Many thanks Tonya...feel free to comment sometime. :-)
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Racialrealist, you got a cool blog and all but why the negative slant towards black men?

It's like this shit is getting out of hand.

I love and adore black women and BLACK WOMEN ONLY. I don't want any other women, but damn. Yoll seem to hate brothers. What's up with that?

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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 08:13 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Tonya, ever thought about buying a chocolate dildo? It might help you get an orgasm at last.
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Igbohonky:

vomit colored piece of black trash....

Now take the white man's cock out of your rectum and stand up like a fucking man, you worthless piece of shit.

You fucking vermin.

PORCH MONKEY.

Remember what those white men did to Abner Louima? They raped him anally using a broom handle. I wouldn't be surprised if BLACK men pull that stunt on you because they are so embarrassed to be of the same race as you......

Schakspir:

Yup. Sounds like a Stormfront troll to me.

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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 09:36 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Good gracious. Now I'm supposed to take the advice of a dead nigger. Did you get tested yet? Wasn’t it an orgasm and a lack of condoms that got you in your predicament?
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Racialrealist, you got a cool blog and all

Many thanks.

... but why the negative slant towards black men?

It's like this shit is getting out of hand.

I love and adore black women and BLACK WOMEN ONLY. I don't want any other women, but damn. Yoll seem to hate brothers. What's up with that?


I'm sorry that you feel it's negative towards black men - I certainly don't want to be considered to be bashing black men...all I can say is as a black woman, I am naturally interested in exploring the impact of gendered racism on the black female in relation to black male-female relationships from time to time. I always emphasize that I am not saying all black men practice gendered racism. Also, I am not claiming that either black men or black women have a monopoly on suffering from racism, but I hope that some brothers (particularly if they have daughters lol) will be sympathetic/ supportive when discussing this important issue which affects black women and ultimately the black community.

To reiterate, I am not trying to minimize the suffering of black men - however, that doesn't mean that I cannot highlight the issue of gendered racism in the black community - these kinds of issues need to be discussed because they have an impact on the self esteem of black women which ultimately affects the black comunity...I feel that any black man who is concerned about the black community should be concerned about issues which affect black women. I frequently point out on my blog that I am well aware that there are many wonderful black men out there.

I welcome comments from black men who support the blog's philosophy ie black-on-black love - keep it clean though. :-)


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Posted on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 10:58 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Racialrealist: I like your blog and its great to have you here on this board.:-)
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Igbogirl - thanks for the welcome - feel free to comment on my blog sometime. :-)
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Racialrealist I will post a comment there some time. I've noticed that a lot of black men feel socially validated and generally better about themselves if they have a white woman (ANY white woman) at their side. The sentiment seems to be that if a white woman wants to be with them, they can't be this despicable, crime-committing loser that society has told them time and again that they are. There are many black men who would automatically prefer to be with somebody who looked like Roseanne Barr over somebody who looked like Naomi Campbell.

As for black women, I find that a lot of us have NOT felt socially validated when we date white men. Instead we've felt wrong for not holding out for a black guy and we've seen the evil looks black men give us when we walk hand-in-hand with a handsome white man. Very few black women would choose a white man who looked like, say, Tony Soprano over a black men who looked like Tyrese.
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So you are now the Thumper's welcome wagon??? Give it a rest - SLUT!!!
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Hey Racialrealist,

In the past few hours reading some of the shit posted by Lil_ze on this forum and noticing the brothers on here don't say nothing to defend the ladies' honor, I owe you an apology.

If it's knuckleheads like him in the world and he really is black then I don't know what to say.

I'd kick his ass if I ever see him though and I apologize to the sisters on here. That shit is uncalled for.

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Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 12:52 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

NolanFane - You probably ought to get a clue before you go rushing to make judgements.
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Nolanfane
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Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 12:59 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

WTF???

Have you read the racist ass shit that mf posted about Africa and Africans?

You are a black woman aren't you?

He makes fun of black women's pain and calls them everything but a child of god. What clue am I supposed to get?

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Mzuri
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Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 01:19 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

The clue that comes over time. I don't believe you've been here long enough to know what's going on. Read and observe before you criticise people's points of view.
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Nolanfane
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Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 01:46 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

So Mzuri you wish all the people in Africa would die of AIDS?

You think all dark skinned black women, such as my mother and my girlfriend are porch monkeys?

Hey Mzuri, you and me are like me and Igbogirl. We're never going to get along.

I don't need to observe shit "over time" to see a racist bastard who hates black women and black people in general.

I am a Black man. That means I originally came from Africa. I just took my son to Senegal last summer to know his roots.

I'm not down with Lil_ze's program or anybody who defends it.





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Mzuri
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Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 01:50 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Well, according to IGBOBitch, I and several other posters (that she doesn't know a damn thing about) are porch monkeys. I'm not defending anyone - I'm telling you that you need to be here for more than two fucking days to know what's going on here. How do you know we're never going to get along? Do you know me? WTF are you saying???
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Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 03:04 am:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Mzuri, what's the matter, having trouble recruiting another Nazi? -Your malicious redneck antics not paying off this time?

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"Hey Racialrealist,

In the past few hours reading some of the shit posted by Lil_ze on this forum and noticing the brothers on here don't say nothing to defend the ladies' honor, I owe you an apology.

If it's knuckleheads like him in the world and he really is black then I don't know what to say.

I'd kick his ass if I ever see him though and I apologize to the sisters on here. That shit is uncalled for."

I respect you for posting this. The reason myself and some of the other sisters have been getting so angry on this board is because of some of the disgusting things and images that Ntfs and Lil_ze have posted. They claim they love black women and then they liken us to monkeys and gorillas and denigrate Africa in such a way that it makes you wonder if they realize that THEY are FROM Africa. When you started siding with them and agreeing with them on the board, I assumed you shared their anti-black sentiments and so I was negative towards you.
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Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 01:15 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hey Racialrealist,

In the past few hours reading some of the shit posted by Lil_ze on this forum and noticing the brothers on here don't say nothing to defend the ladies' honor, I owe you an apology.


No problem.

The reason myself and some of the other sisters have been getting so angry on this board is because of some of the disgusting things and images that Ntfs and Lil_ze have posted. They claim they love black women and then they liken us to monkeys and gorillas and denigrate Africa in such a way that it makes you wonder if they realize that THEY are FROM Africa. When you started siding with them and agreeing with them on the board, I assumed you shared their anti-black sentiments and so I was negative towards you.

I'm speechless at the kinds of things that are acceptable on this board - it's so ugly - I would have thought that those kinds of comments would be automatically deleted.
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Ntfs_encryption
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Posted on Monday, October 02, 2006 - 01:56 pm:   Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

”….you loath black men as much as you do black women; you don't have to cuss to say it; you've gotten that point across plenty of times.”

This is so sad. You really can’t help yourself can you. Same tired and weak phony accusations. I’ve asked you numerous times (along with your rabid race baiter comrades) to provide any posts where I used similar hostile language against black women (now it’s black men –Oh God!) that you continually use against black men. As expected, you weave and bob and dodge and run away. YOU PROVIDE NOTHING TO SUPPORT YOUR ACCUSATIONS –NOTHING! And as far as me using profanity, that is something I generally don’t do. You know that. I will admit that my tone and words have become a little harsher than normal as of recently. That is only in direct response to the escalating vicious racist attacks and rhetoric by a nasty virus that has recently infected this board (you know who!). But my posts are not saturated with curse words and racist name calling (the “n” word) like yours. I don’t call other black people “niggers”. But you and your frustrated hater supporters do.

”The only reason why you don't express it as much as you do your hatred for black women...is because you're a pussy—“

Ya know, I don’t know what else to say to you about this. I’m not going to defend myself against this silly accusation because it’s not true and you can’t prove it. Do I call black women the same names that you call black men? Do I call black women niggers….dumb fucks….fucktards…fat whores….cunts or black bitches? Do I??? Next…..

”you KNOW a black man would hand you your girly (custard colored) ass on a platter.”

I don’t think so. I haven’t seen it happen yet. And are you taking those meds we talked about before Tonya? Look –you are only going to get worse and reality is going to become an increasing struggle for you. TAKE THOSE MEDS –PLEASE!

But let me address your silly accusation. You act as if I’m standing outside a club, cursing and pushing women around and punching on them. And when a guy comes out to confront me, I run across the street and drive off in my car. That ain’t the case here Boo! This is cyber space and women are on equal footing with any man that steps into the arena. There are no gender advantages! A woman can write pithy and brilliant commentary as any man can. A woman can get as aggressive, profane, stupid, vulgar, enlightening or compelling as any man! You act as if we are engaged in a wrestling or bench pressing contest! NO MAN ON THIS BOARD HAS AN ADVANTAGE OVER ANY WOMAN! If you can articulate your argument or convey and idea effectively, gender plays no part. Ya got that?

”Tell me. Why don't you have more discussions with the men on this board?”

About what? I engage everyone. When have you ever seen a male poster call me out and me not respond? Have you ever seen someone attempt to bully me around and me not say anything? And why would I avoid their posts? Duhhhhhhh….???

”Why are 99.999% of your posts your cat fighting with and debasing (black) women?”

Because the men are not engaged in relentless racist foul language bashing like you and your posse of deranged black male hatin’ antagonists do! Most of the male posters are not constantly using racist name calling and profanity to attack black women as you and your friends do black men. And when it does happen, it is in direct response and retaliation to the shrill name calling and bigotry by you and your gang.

Your sick obsession with skin color and pitting blacks against one another is legendary on this board Tonya! I DON’T SEE ONE BLACK MAN DOING THAT!

” I think those are the more interesting questions. If you have so much contempt for the women on this board ...why are you always bothering them.”

What women are you referring to? Gimme some names. If you are referring to that immigrant racist clown I have been battling as of late, well, think about it. When some one launches a pre-emptive attack on me then goes on to spew daily viscous racist comments about black Americans, yeah, I'm gonna say something. Let me give you an example. You’ve been a member of this board longer than I have. You may recall some time ago, there was a male poster who identified himself as an African. I believe he said he was Ethiopian. Anyway, this guy was using some of the most foul and racist language to attack black Americans. He was calling black Americans some of the worst racist epitaphs and profanity I have ever heard. I mean –it was real bad! It was so bad and offensive, I believe Troy banned him from the board. As I said, I don’t recall hearing that kind of racist language against black Americans in quite sometime. Had I been a board member at that time, I would have made that guy a personal project!

And exactly who am I bothering? You? If you recall Tonya, recently you asked me in a post (which was very civil –I was surprised) to stop harassing you. You were upset at the digs I was throwing at you. Now, if you recall, again, I told you I was only teasing and I would stop. I did. I respected your request. I even complemented you on a few of your posts. Other than our ongoing extreme differences about blacks and skin color, I had no beef with you. But when the Igbo Virus infected the board with her serial demonizing, profanity and racist attacks against black men, you decided to side with her! Then you began spitting your Cobra venom in my eyes and anyone else who rejected this parasites racisms and name calling! WTF? And if you have noticed, the language I have been using as of late is unlike anything I have ever used before. I make no apologies for that since I (along with numerous other posters) have been dealing with an extremely virulent and vile profane moron who has no respect for anyone! And there is no way I will allow an immigrant to freely degrade and curse black Americans and drive a cynical wedge between black men and women. I DON’T CARE WHERE SHE CAME FROM! And it’s not just about me. The majority of the posters on this board are not going to let a Junior High school immigrant rookie walk in the back door and tip this board over with her garish drama and pathology. It ain’t happening!

You and Shemikkka are the only ones rushing to defend her Machiavellian antics. Have you not noticed how many people she has alienated with her obnoxious belligerence, name calling and racism? And as far as Shemikkka is concerned, she's a black Skin Head whose frenzied whining, male bashing, racism and cursing is nothing short of macabre. She has nothing in her posts other than a vicious stream of profanity, calling people she disagrees with “niggers” and extolling her unnatural hatred for black men and black people who have lighter complexions than she does. That’s it! Nothing else......NOTHING! Her hysterical rants are empty, mindless. void of anything that resembles a point and never gets beyond her disabling psychosis. That is why I never respond to anything she writes. I just ignore her. She is so beneath me, I refuse to acknowledge her existence. She reminds me of a small insect crawling between the cracks in the sidewalks. Why bother?

”That's not normal for a straight man....Not even one who's an aging Nazi. The only men who spend this much time arguing with women they claim to hate--and consider “bottom feeders”--are “Fags”

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! You’re funny –and sad. First of all, your homosexual baiting is not going to work. Let’s get that out of the way right now. I’m not homophobic. But hairy chests, hard legs and dicks aren’t my thing. Sorry. Women have always been my forte. The more, the better! So, your cheap gay shot failed. I’m surprised you tried that. Can’t you do better?

And as far as your comment about; “….. arguing with women they claim to hate…” I have no idea where that came from. I have never said directly or indirectly, that I hate anyone! I’m not a hater. The profanity, rage and hate is coming from you and your crew! Not me! So don’t hide behind being a woman when the going get’s tough! You know about the heat in the kitchen thing, right? Well, think about it…….

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