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Chrishayden
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Chrishayden
Post Number: 2718
Registered: 03-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 10:48 am: | 
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I was surfing through the channels and saw that Tyra Banks has this program on asking why men go to strip clubs.
I turned it off after 30 seconds. She's not serious, is she?
I hear women ask this all the time. This is a rhetorical question, isn't it?
They go to get turned on. They go there because the dancers will do stuff their girlfriends and wives won't--
And let me tell you, I am on the side of the wives on this. After working all day at a job, or keeping house, after cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, washing my stanky drawers my wife is supposed to fuck like a rabbit, too?
This is giving the woman a break! It's so he won't be bothering her all night and she can get some shuteye!
I fault this on our unrealistic idea of marriage that you are supposed to be able to have it all. I think if we were more realistic we would know this.
Of course I think the wife has a right to bitch if he is blowing some ungodly amount (I'd say more than 50 bucks a month, but it could be more or less depending on what they make)
Fellas and gals. What say ye? |
Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 6440
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 11:05 am: |
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Chris,
Whether strip clubs do more harm than good I don't know.
Perhaps strip clubs provide a less harmful release of male libido. Or perhaps they help make manifest more dangerous elements of it
Personally, I've never gotten the lure of strip clubs. Have only been to them a few times. And then I was being dragged to them by (horny) business associates.
Honestly. To me, going to gawk at nude women I can't (or shouldn't) fuhk is MASOCHISM of the highest order. |
Cynique
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Username: Cynique
Post Number: 5123
Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 11:34 am: |
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Pole dancers are eye candy, not bed mates. Maybe men who go to these clubs go because they don't have to worry about trying to satisfy anyone; they can just look and enjoy. |
Chrishayden
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Chrishayden
Post Number: 2719
Registered: 03-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 12:41 pm: |
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Shows what you two know--for a fee you can get private lap dances or a half naked woman squirming all over you for a couple of hours, rubbing her fake boobs on you and telling you what a big bad man you are.
Sure beats lying next to somebody with curlers in her hair in a housecoat and face paint snoring--but as I said it again, she's doing that so she can get up and make that PAPER!
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Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 6446
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 12:47 pm: |
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Chris,
"Diff'rent, uh, strokes..." |
Cynique
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Cynique
Post Number: 5128
Registered: 01-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 12:56 pm: |
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I repeat, chrishayden, pole dancers are not bed mates. They are sex toys who do not require a man to perform or to even have what it takes to excite their snoring mates. |
Chrishayden
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Chrishayden
Post Number: 2723
Registered: 03-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 01:05 pm: |
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And again I tell you for the right price you can have everything you want--but I suppose the pole dancer at the strip club in Mayberry--Big Maybelle down at the barn--dances between cow milkings and sheep dippings.
Come back here when you know what is going on in the streets. |
Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 6452
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 01:07 pm: |
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Chris,
Make sure you scrub up...A LOT...after you've rode dat hause, Kemosabee. |
Cynique
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Username: Cynique
Post Number: 5131
Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 01:29 pm: |
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Oh stuff it chris. I know you're desperate because you've resorted to playhing the ol Mayberry card. The pole dancer I know who was always a cute little thing even when she lived down the street from me, says that she and her co-workers never indulge in the actual sex act because they don't consider themselves hookers and the club management frowns on it. Of course maybe at the second rate joints you frequent the crack head dancers go for anything. Even you. ugh. |
Moonsigns
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Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 1443
Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 02:04 pm: |
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Strippers are generally dumb, attention-seeking whores who act like they're "stuck" and have no other choice but to do what they do. And the men who seek these types of women out for entertainment --and give these women their money --are like dogs at a hydrant. A married man who frequents strip clubs and also has children --is even worse! |
Kola_boof
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 3265
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 02:07 pm: |
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Yeah, but there are a few strippers (and prostitutes) who are uncommonly KEEN and know exactly how to clock big dollars, save and invest those dollars---and end up ruling their own worlds and retiring at age 30 very rich and happy.
Not all women who exploit men's weaknesses are STUPID, and many of them are far happier than "WIVES".
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Abm
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Username: Abm
Post Number: 6460
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 02:13 pm: |
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Wonder what percentages of women would fall into the catagory Moonsigns describes versus that of what Kola describes.
Hmmmmmmmmm?
Question: Is there an inate element within women that 'enjoys' trading sex for cash?
I don't mean of the straight cash-fo-a$$ variety you get from streetwalkers and/or call girls.
I mean via a subtle, perhaps unspoken turn on that a man digs and wants you so much that he'll pay for the privilege of having you.
Tell the TRUTH...Hahahahaha!!! |
Moonsigns
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 1444
Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 02:24 pm: |
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Kola,
There may be a "few". I doubt more than that, though! And I beg to differ-- most women who exploit men's weaknesses are stupid, and when a woman will do so low to exploit herself, especially in a sexual nature, it is a tell-tale sign of deep emotional and spiritual unhappiness. I don't, for one second, believe otherwise.
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Moonsigns
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 1445
Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 02:27 pm: |
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Abm,
I think most women who trade sex for cash (especially in the US) do so because it's one way --one very small way-- to feel as if they control men. It's about power. |
Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 6462
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 02:34 pm: |
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Moonsigns,
Most EVERYTHING that goes on in the US and the rest of this world is about "power".
How does a woman using her sex to effect such any differ from a man using his brawn or cash? |
Cynique
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Cynique
Post Number: 5134
Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 02:40 pm: |
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Come on, loosen up, Moonie. A lot of pole dancers are college students who do this to help pay their tuition. They're not all bimbos. As KOla says many of they are business women who invest their earning wisely. And, undoubtedly,to some men, going to a strip joint is a form of recreation, a diversion that takes them away from the predictiable hum-drum of every day life. |
Moonsigns
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 1446
Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:00 pm: |
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Cynique,
I have to disagree!
Do you like to go to clubs where men strip? |
Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 6463
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:02 pm: |
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Moonsigns,
What would you do if you discovered your husband has visited strip clubs? |
Kola_boof
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 3267
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 4 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:11 pm: |
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Let me tell you something Moonsigns....
I'm a PRO.
And that means PROFESSIONAL woman.
And I can tell right now by reading your posts---that YOUR HUSBAND is fucking another woman.
He has to be.
And that he's the ideal candidate that PROs like me get our Platinum cards from.
I'm dead serious.
You are really SEXIST when it comes to women's options and WOMEN's ability to correctly size up and manipulate situations offered by men.
If I was on your block, I bet I could fuck your husband TONIGHT.
And I know what the hell I'm talking about.
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Kola_boof
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 3268
Registered: 02-2005
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:12 pm: |
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Do you like to go to clubs where men strip?
Yes, millions of women do, and what's wrong with that?
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Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 6466
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:15 pm: |
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Kola: "If I was on your block, I bet I could fuck your husband TONIGHT...And I know what the hell I'm talking about."
"Saints preserve us." |
Moonsigns
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 1448
Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:21 pm: |
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Abm,
I would lose a lot of respect for him and our relationship would suffer. |
Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 6467
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:26 pm: |
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Moonsigns,
What about porn? If you caught dude watching some XXX flicks, would your relationship suffer? |
Chrishayden
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Chrishayden
Post Number: 2728
Registered: 03-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:39 pm: |
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Cynique:
Of course they say that. If they say otherwise they are admitting that they are engaging in prostitution and the cops will knock them over.
Just like those women from the escort services are just companions. Just like Bill Clinton did not have sex with that woman.
If the client got the money the sky is the limit. |
Cynique
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Username: Cynique
Post Number: 5136
Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:47 pm: |
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Moonsigns. I've never been to a male strip joint mostly because I ain't putting no dollars in their G-strings. But I have been to a shower where there was a male stripper. It was fun and harmless. And, I do have to wonder why a women would feel so threatened and have such an aversion to pole dancers. |
Schakspir
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Username: Schakspir
Post Number: 597
Registered: 12-2005
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:57 pm: |
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Strip clubs are for guys who are too scared to go to brothels. I haven't visited a strip club in at least 10 years, maybe longer....it isn't enough to just stare, as far as I'm concerned. |
Abm
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Abm
Post Number: 6469
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 03:59 pm: |
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Schakspir,
Now on THAT we agree.
The day I make if a point to regularly gawk at naiked women who are grinding in front of me is the point I start doing MORE with them than just gawking. |
Moonsigns
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Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 1449
Registered: 07-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 04:02 pm: |
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Kola,
I think it's wrong when a male or female seeks this form of entertainment because I view it as explotation --and I think it takes a person of weak spiritual character to self-exploit as well as exploit others. And I'm not sexist when it comes to womens "options" because neither male or female, IMO, "wins" when there is sexual explotation involved. I beleive in having integrity and I strive for that in my personal life.
And any woman (even ugly women) can use their pu$$y to get just about get any man they want....for a night. However, having a man truly love and adore a woman is a completely different than him phucking some chick he is only using for the short-term. Self-respecting women, myself included in those few numbers, couldn't care less about the thousands upon thousands of men that they could potentially bed or "manipulate" for temporary use of a "Platinum". Rather, they care about the one man that will give them everything without it ever costing them their dignity.
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Moonsigns
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Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 1450
Registered: 07-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 04:14 pm: |
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Abm,
If I found out he was involved in that our relationship would suffer as well. Porn, IMO, in most men, leads to a feeling of wanting more. They begin to frequent strip clubs. When that is not stimulating enough, it's off to seek a prostitute. In many cases, many men don't stop there. Ultimately, it leads to the decay of society. More people and relationships are harmed than helped by it.
Personally, it wouldn't shake my confidence as a woman and a sexual being --I know that I'm extremely adequate! But it could harm my health. And no man is worth that.
I hope you can consider my point of view.
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Kola_boof
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Kola_boof
Post Number: 3274
Registered: 02-2005
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Votes: 2 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 04:16 pm: |
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You know Moonsigns,
A lot of Feminists used to put me down for being a stay at home Mom.
They come to my house and roll their eyes because of the way I LOVE cooking and feeding my man.
They smirked as I was HAPPY to give my man foot/back massage, blow job and serve up fresh shakes and delicious meals.
They hissed at my bare breasts---as they opted for Pin-striped SUITS and a rollodex.
THAT SAME ATTITUDE...is what you're expressing in reverse.
You're trying to DELUDE yourself into thinking you're Superior than a "HO" just because you're stupid enough to want some MAN to love, cherish and marry you.
The same MF that "HOs" can build an empire off of, no matter HOW MUCH he loves you----because #1, "MEN" separate SEX and LOVE. They can fuck a piece of fresh hot ass and not even remember the face that went with it.
It has nothing to DO with how much they love you.
And to a "HO"--you and Kola really ain't got shit.
And they're right, MOONIE.
I can promise YOU right now---that YOUR marriage is going to END.
Either that or you'll have to get used to some "humiliations" coming up.
A woman's FREEDOM is that she can have it either way, truth be told.
I've been a SLUT and I LOVED it.
I've been a housewife and I LOVED it.
The bottom line is---this is a MAN's world. And some women don't give a fuck about having a man, being adored by one--they just want the same thing a man wants---to get ahead, to get over.
And I don't blame them.
You being married and having a false sense of security built off the FACT that you're ignorant about the "male animal" and what it truly takes for a marriage to survive.....does not make you SUPERIOR to a "HO".
You just chose a different experience.
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Abm
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Username: Abm
Post Number: 6472
Registered: 04-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 04:21 pm: |
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Moonsigns,
Babe. I "consider" most every "point of view". And perhaps were I woman I might think similarly to you.
But I'm a man. With a fully functioning penis.
Thus, I can only go so far with you here.
Don't worry, though. I don't really expect you (and most other women) to understand. |
Chrishayden
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Chrishayden
Post Number: 2730
Registered: 03-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 04:27 pm: |
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Cynique:
Oh really? Did y'all make a tape? |
Cynique
"Cyniquian" Level Poster
Username: Cynique
Post Number: 5138
Registered: 01-2004
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Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 04:36 pm: |
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In my long marriage, I found that the less I tried to possess my husband, the less I needed to rein him in. Sometimes a man becomes more inttrigued by a wife who is coy. Sometimes. Women who want to be the center of a man's universe, who want to be his sun, moon, and stars often end up just being his warden. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz |
Cynique
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Username: Cynique
Post Number: 5139
Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 04:40 pm: |
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Did we make a tape of what, chrishayden? 15 women giggling at a writhing hunk - who was probably gay? No. |
Tonya
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Username: Tonya
Post Number: 16
Registered: 07-2006
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 04:56 pm: |
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You know Moonsigns,
A lot of Feminists used to put me down for being a stay at home Mom.
They come to my house and roll their eyes because of the way I LOVE cooking and feeding my man.
They smirked as I was HAPPY to give my man foot/back massage, blow job and serve up fresh shakes and delicious meals.
They hissed at my bare breasts---as they opted for Pin-striped SUITS and a rollodex.
THAT SAME ATTITUDE...is what you're expressing in reverse.
You're trying to DELUDE yourself into thinking you're Superior than a "HO" just because you're stupid enough to want some MAN to love, cherish and marry you.
The same MF that "HOs" can build an empire off of, no matter HOW MUCH he loves you----because #1, "MEN" separate SEX and LOVE. They can fuck a piece of fresh hot ass and not even remember the face that went with it.
It has nothing to DO with how much they love you.
And to a "HO"--you and Kola really ain't got shit.
And they're right, MOONIE.
I can promise YOU right now---that YOUR marriage is going to END.
Either that or you'll have to get used to some "humiliations" coming up.
A woman's FREEDOM is that she can have it either way, truth be told.
I've been a SLUT and I LOVED it.
I've been a housewife and I LOVED it.
The bottom line is---this is a MAN's world. And some women don't give a fuck about having a man, being adored by one--they just want the same thing a man wants---to get ahead, to get over.
And I don't blame them.
You being married and having a false sense of security built off the FACT that you're ignorant about the "male animal" and what it truly takes for a marriage to survive.....does not make you SUPERIOR to a "HO".
You just chose a different experience.
THAT THERE MY SISTA IS THE TRUTH...RAWER THAN I'VE EVER-RRRR HEARD IT...BUT THE TRUTH NONETHELESS...I'M TRYNNA TELL YOU IT'S THE TRUTH! |
Chrishayden
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Username: Chrishayden
Post Number: 2735
Registered: 03-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 06:29 pm: |
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Cynique:
I bet you didn't worry about the motion of the ocean just as long as that stripper was there when you got the notion
UNHHH!
Kola:
You ought to get in your car, go right over Moonsigns house and take her man while she's standing there looking! I wonder if she would be Miss Goody Two Shoes then! |
Cynique
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Username: Cynique
Post Number: 5140
Registered: 01-2004
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 07:50 pm: |
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What are you talking about chrishayden??? Are you confusing a baby shower with a bath shower??? The pregnant honoree was probably the one most excited by the strippers performance. Me, I was just an amused spectator. |
Moonsigns
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Username: Moonsigns
Post Number: 1451
Registered: 07-2004
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 08:18 pm: |
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Kola,
I will never believe that whores have more than self-respecting women. You and other women who believe such foolishness are idiots --as if "Platinums" and the feeling of importance comes from a dyck between your legs is a tell-tale sign of a woman who's got "shyt".
The mindset of a self-respecting women is superior because she refuses to sell-out and will be alone before she phucks another woman's husband or significant other. Whereas, the whorish woman is like a crack-junkie--relying on the next man-fix she can find in order for a scrape of material gain and a brief emotional lift.
And don't delude yourself into believing that self-respecting women aren't enjoying sex, have quality partners and are content. Because when the whorish woman is tired from being emotionally and physically "used", it is always the self-respecting woman who she goes to for guidance. I've heard "your" sob stories a million times --and "you" always want to know my secret.
I'm married, so I expect to be appreciated, cherished, and loved. Any woman who is healthy and cares about herself should feel the same. Do you feel different for your black "daughters" Kola? If a relationship ends, as sometimes they dom, it does. Life goes on. I am secure, married or not.
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Brownbeauty123
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Username: Brownbeauty123
Post Number: 972
Registered: 03-2006
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, September 08, 2006 - 11:27 pm: |
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Most strippers are not college students...I've been to female strip clubs & they're just women trying to make some easy cash.
And they ARE having sex in those clubs A LOT. |
Doberman23
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Username: Doberman23
Post Number: 516
Registered: 01-2006
Rating: N/A
Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, September 09, 2006 - 01:08 am: |
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strippers are nothing but sexy atm machines, they have to do a little more than dance in michigan, because right across the way is good ol canada and they get down ... and it's legal ... oh yeah .. you can bet on sports games there too, so no need to go to vegas... boy i would have so much fun if i where a hooker gettin' gambler. |
Tall_brother
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Username: Tall_brother
Post Number: 33
Registered: 08-2006
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, September 09, 2006 - 10:19 am: |
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pssst
I gets real pussy don't need stripers. Wack ass stippers. Man!
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